Everyone's idea of "too many guests" is a bit different -- for me, anything more than 3 is too much, but for one of my friends, she needs at leasst 100 people.

As for which to do, I'd survey your friends to see what they'd like best. If you just go to a set murder mystery dinner where you reserve, you wouldn't have to worry about it "being messed up" by stragglers or absentees because these events still go on with or without you. I personally cringe at "Paris-themed" stuff that lean heavily on caricature and stereotypes, but you do you.

#3. I like activity-based parties for stuff like this but feel shy about my acting abilities and pretending to be someone I'm not. Also tiaras + backyard archery should make for excellent photos.

The place we went had a beach/flamingo theme. My shirts had a flamingo on them that said "Let's get flocked up! Alizadk's beachlorette party"

Mine was in Scottsdale, Arizona so there was a lot of Taco Bout Love signs and Final Fiesta type of thing. Pretty cute.

My friend did dazed and engaged recently. A lot of tie dye.

Getting wiggy with it 😂

I’m a blonde lawyer so naturally my theme is legally blonde! But disco was definitely a close second :)

Movie titles could be used:

Girls Trip

The Slumber Party

Sisterhood (of the Travelling Pants)

You could tie the theme to a color like Pretty in Pink or Something Blue.

Or is she has fandom she likes you could make that a theme. Like Mama Mia theme or Gilmore girls themed bachelorette.

Play a rousing game of Pin the Rose on Chris Harrison (if doing this after a few drinks, it could be much more entertaining). ����

Bachelor Bingo

Plenty of candles

Roses, of course

Chris Harrison cut outs!

Get a stripper that dances to country music of unknown artists.

Get a big picture of the fiance and play pin the rose of the F1/fiance.

Chicken nuggets

Could the theme not be.. we’re getting married? Haha

What are you guys into? Hobbies, sports teams, fandoms, etc?

"The Nearlywed Games"

Following! Have the same idea :)

What are your common interests?

https://www.pinterest.com/ideas/combined-bachelor-bachelorette-party-theme/912001210890/

I'm planning my cousins and we're doing "Dazed and Engaged"

70's and Dazed and Confused theme. I'm very excited for this, as we grew up watching Dazed and Confused, lol.

1. Decor wise a sign that says: “She accepted his final rose.”

2. Make the bridesmaids do ridiculous “limo entrances” (look it up on YouTube) and have the bride give a “First Impression Rose” to the best one

3. Have her fiancé fill out a list of responses to crazy questions and then go through them during the party

You can basically make anything bachelor themed by handing out roses, making rose themed drinks (someone has an Instagram for episode themed cocktails) and making things contests.

Desserts = “fantasy sweets”

Steal someone else’s Champagne lol

Roses, Champagne

Have a windmill.

Waiting on the girl to change: fashion show. Whichever girl gets the most coins thrown at her during her run wins. Said coins then used to acquire rubber duckies from a claw machine.

https://www.reddit.com/r/JohnMayer/s/aiX6qn2Gx1

I can think of a lot of NSFW games, but then someone here will surely complain about women sexualizing male celebrities and applying different standards for women. :)

On a less prurient theme, a Come Back to Bed-themed lingerie party would be a blast.

If you are at someone's house and like drinking you could make different cocktails and give them fantasy related pun names? 

I’ve seen the videos where everyone makes drinks/food boards based on a certain theme (with every person having different themes). This would be so cute if everyone coming likes FW.

It could also work if it doesn’t. For example, if you have around 7 people coming, each could be designated a dragon den (which all have a specific color) and then bring things that all have to do with that color. This could include an alcoholic drink too. Though this would take more planning between everyone coming, it’s a great way to make sure everyone has something they like, esp if you go the route of alcohol drinks!

I love this! What about some sort of game that assigns everyone a dragon? (like, if you are not familiar with the lore, there are 7 types of dragons). If you could get her something similar to Vi´s armor that would probably be cool. OR A TARGET AND SOME DAGGERS TO THROW, well maybe not *actual* daggers, but something like that!.

Do you know who her favorite characters are?

Idk if a custom Fourth Wing game of Guess Who is the vibe you're going for but it could be fun

If you want a stripper involved, obviously find one who’ll cosplay Xaden lol

I’ve seen a banner that says “Cheers to the next chapter”

Everyone dress in rider black, the more (sexy) leather the better (unless it’s going to be hot). Temporary dragon tattoos.

I believe there’s a Fourth Wing Cards Against Humanity. Other games could be like “pin the bachelorette on the dragon” where you have little cutouts of the bachelorette and try to get her in the back of Tairn blindfolded. A game of Twister but call it the “sparring mat”, and you can add a twist where people wear fake daggers and can try to steal them off one another mid move. “Signet Manifesting” where you bounce beer pong balls into cups that have different signets in them.

I’ve seen a reel of girls having a party and they all made drinks themed to different romantasy books, so themed food and drinks could be fun. Chocolate cake, mimosas with an orange peel garnish, dragon (deviled) eggs, wyvern (chicken) wings, lavender lemonade, “pick your poison” shots, and broccoli.