Both of mine sleep in the bed, but they have their own dog beds on the bed that they sleep in. They will snuggle with me for a little bit, then retire to their beds until morning. Maybe give that a shot? We tried to crate them after letting them sleep in the bed but that was a disaster, so the beds on the bed is a great compromise for us.

Mine slept in my bed for 3 years but I had the same issue and have a baby on the way so we moved our beloved daxie into a crate in our bedroom. We thought it would be a huge struggle but she has been fine from day 1!

We put an electric heated blanket in the crate and made sure it’s warmed before she gets in and she gets a special treat once she is in the crate with the door closed! I do miss having her in the bed but I am sleeping much better.

We bought an inexpensive bedside newborn bassinet and put his dog bed in it. It’s right next to the bed. He prefers the big bed but will settle and sleep willingly in his cradle.

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My Doxie has almost been successful in getting me to not sleep in the bed

We have a couple of those big, rectangular dog beds from Costco. They're comically oversized, but our two senior dachshunds love them.

I gave up on actual dog beds for mine. I've just accumulated old shirts and blankets for him that he loves to sleep in. I usually throw an older dirty work shirt in sometimes so it smells like me and he seems really happy.

The cozy doughnut beds are awesome! I didn’t believe the hype, but my crew fell in love with a friend’s while we were visiting, so I ordered one for them to have at home. As soon as I pulled it out of the box, two were in it snuggling up. It’s by far the most popular bed here!

I have yet to find a bed that my dog prefers over the fluffy blanket throws.

We love the cozy caves but the secondary bed that I have is the Kirkland huge bed that I throw blankets on top of.

I don't have any advice, other than to say this will require patience. I have a boy who just turned 3, and he's a standard. He is reactive, but he's great inside or on our property with his humans and doesn't have accidents or episodes of tearing up the toys or beds (he has had two beds and we just got rid of the first one because it was getting a little ratty even after washing it). Where he can be challenging and unpredictable is when he's out and about around new people and other dogs while on leash.

One positive thing is that you still see him as a wonderful baby boy -- seeing the good is key when you have a challenging dog.

I had to use blankets with mine until they got done with shredding beds.
You can buy fleece throw blankets in bulk (Amazon), throw a couple down & he'll probably be just fine with that. If he shreds them it will be less money to replace them.

Weens are shredders though, especially if they have anxiety.
Look for toys that are specifically for super chewers. Balls are good & a worn-out ween is a lot easier to deal with. Thick bones to chew on, just check the quality/ingredients.

As far as the happy pee, he might grow out of it, mine did eventually.
A good urine-removing spray & paper towels...the biggest packages you can get.
I think I'm also going to get a diaper pail when I get my next doggo.

He sure is a cutie!

My female mini dachshund who I lost last year in April slipped a disk aged 6. She was able to walk again after physio over 6 months albeit she walked a bit wonky. She passed aged 15 without having any more back issues I had a male mini who passed age 10 from cancer and he had no back issues during his life.

My grandmother only picks dachshunds and they’ve all had arthritis problems. She keeps a ramp to not let them jump up and down off of the bed and couches. Also my girl is a chiweenie and she had arthritis issues early. Btw I know it’s not part of your question, but one of hers was prone to get sick a lot with infections and three passed away from cancer. Two were over 13 and one was around 7. These things are common things for these dogs. But she still refuses get any other dogs because she says they give love the best. And she’s right! Mine has been the best companion ever. My recommendation, from the vet, is to keep their weight normal and regular check ups and clean their teeth every year. If they are heavy, they have more risks for things. My chiweenie is 14 and she’s still lively. I hope my comment didn’t scare you away from getting one, but I want you to know what we’ve had to deal with. They will be your best friend and the most loyal pup!

You can GREATLY reduce issues by keeping the dog at a healthy weight. When picking the dog up, also support upper and lower half so as not to put strain on one section of back

They aren’t bad about jumping down as long as you train them to use steps or ramps. I have had 3 and no issues with backs. But if you have two dogs that are not using ramps it might be hard to train them all to use ramps.

I foster for a dachshund rescue and IVDD is quite common - statistically 1 in 4. As people have mentioned, keeping their weight down and using ramps rather than letting them jump helps, but genetics and other things factor in too. I have 3 dachshunds currently, and 2 have had back surgeries. No lasting effects for them thankfully, but it is expensive and stressful going through it.

We have two K9 Ballistic beds (one orthopedic and one nesting) that are great. Amazing quality. BoJack likes to dig in his beds and can’t destroy these!

We just got this one for our boy and it’s great: FurHaven Two-Tone Deluxe Chaise Orthopedic Dog Bed w/Removable Cover, Stone Gray, Jumbo Plush: https://app.chewy.com/RJUb4vJXNcb

I have a KURANDA bed on order now, 50x36 (aluminum "indestructible" model, 40 mil. top). I know they also offer a PVC / mesh top outdoor version as well. Came recommended from a boarding kennel in my area. Haven't tried it yet, but it should be coming in this week. Can definitely keep you updated.

Probably a king size. When they are young you might be able to get away with a queen but they grow fast!

We started with Dr Foster's Smith beds until the company was acquired and the quality dropped. Most recently we have had really great experience with the Big Barker Beds.

We have several. one for outside. Two for downstairs and one for upstairs.

I still havent solved the problem for an outdoor water proof cover. The water proof covers at big baker and most beds are great but designed for moisture from the dog not not the rain and elements.

I would also be interested to know if anyone has a good solution for water proofing outdoor beds.

Mine (3 yrs old) has trazodone for such anxiety after his recent surgery for this very issue, and it does help some.

Beat of luck for you and your furbaby. These issues are very heartbreaking.

Oh dear! I wish her well. Good luck.

CBD

The unsettled behavior is likely the pain she is dealing with from the ruptured disc material impacting the sensitive nerves along the spine.

When a disc is ruptured and causing pain with ataxia and loss of use... crate rest won't fix this.

Bare minimum the vet should be prescribing a heavy sedative, nerve pain medicine (also prescribed for neurological issues), as well as a heavy pain medication.

Ask your vet about the possibility of cold laser therapy for your dog. It was a game changer for my boy Max. He went from paralyzed back legs, to back to normal in about 6 weeks.

I miss him so much

TY! For posting this

Dash jumped on the sofa and wouldnt put any weight on his back leg. I thought he just hurt his leg so I crated him for a couple of hours. When he came out, he seemed to be walking fine, but wasn't himself.

I called the vet and managed to get a same day appointment. As we were setting off, I tried to get him to do a wee and his whole back end just toppled over. I scooped him up and got him straight there.

I thought I knew the signs, but I didnt know the early warning signs as well as I should have. Thanks for sharing!

Big Barker beds

Twin mattress, mattress protector, fitted sheet.

Honestly…a crib mattress. Sturdy, firm, and plenty of room for those joints to recover from holding up that frame.

Big Barker beds

A cot mattress is a cheap option