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Etiquette at Kpop Fan Meetings

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Etiquette at K-Pop Fan Meetings

Approaching Idols in Public

When encountering K-pop idols in public, it's crucial to respect their privacy and personal space. Many fans suggest gauging the situation before approaching; if an idol appears covered up or is trying not to be noticed, it's best to leave them alone [1:1][3:2]. If they seem open and approachable, a simple greeting like "Hello, I'm a fan" can be appropriate [3:1]. However, avoid asking for photos or autographs unless they initiate further interaction [3:2].

Concert Etiquette

K-pop concerts have their own unique etiquette compared to other genres. Fans are encouraged to wear band merchandise and wave lightsticks proudly [2:2]. However, it's important to be mindful of others by not obstructing views with phones or banners [5:2]. Participation through singing along or cheering is generally welcomed, but excessive noise during artists' speaking segments should be avoided [5:4][5:6].

Dress Code and Cultural Norms

In Korea, concert-goers typically dress casually rather than wearing band merchandise [4:3]. Foreigners often stand out more due to dressing up, but this is generally accepted [4:2]. While there may be unspoken dress codes, such as wearing specific colors, these are not mandatory [4:3][4:5].

Respecting Privacy and Space

Fans are reminded that idols deserve privacy and space like any other person [3:3]. Sharing locations or details about encounters on social media can lead to unwanted attention and should be avoided [3:8]. Treating idols as regular people and respecting their boundaries is key to maintaining a respectful fan-idol relationship [3:10].

General Tips

Basic hygiene, spatial awareness, and respect are essential at fan meetings and concerts [5]. Being considerate of others, especially when using phones or lightsticks, enhances the experience for everyone [5:5]. Ultimately, enjoying the event while being mindful of those around you ensures a positive atmosphere for both fans and idols alike.

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How does it feel meeting a K-pop idol in person?

Posted by LongjumpingPage6168 · in r/kpopthoughts · 3 months ago
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So I am about to study abroad in Seoul from August to December (I'm from the U.S.) and a random thought popped up in my mind... what should I do if I see a K-pop idol (or celebrity) in person? Should I greet them, politely ask them for an autograph or a selfie, thank them then leave, or just leave them alone completely? Has anyone in this sub ever met an idol in person? If so, how did you feel? What did you say to them? How did you interact with them while keep being professional and polite? I don't want to ever feel awkward or impolite or weird when meeting them...

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marshmallowest · 3 months ago

out in the wild? depends on who they are...the bigger idols are probably not out and about or if they are they're trying not to be noticed. smaller groups, who knows? NJ straight up told fans to come say hi if they saw them in italy.

I'd gauge whether they seem to be busy or giving off "don't bother me" vibes and AT MOST just make eye contact and smile as you pass by. that way you got to express appreciation, they got to receive it, and you both have an out of the situation if it's awkward. then it's on them to decide if they want to interact more.

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barbarapalvinswhore · 3 months ago

Just wave at them and leave them be unless they call you over. The only idols I’ve “met” in their off-time was Itzy in France and the only reason I took pictures with them was because they saw me recognize who they were and waved at me first.

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SecondSoft7240 · 3 months ago

so jealous!! 😭💗

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1lookwhiplash · 3 months ago

I recently ran into and met Minji from Secret Number while in Seoul. I was excited because I actually liked Secret Number. I think she was happy to see a fan and have people recognize her.

Unfortunately she doesn’t speak much English nor I Korean, so the interaction had its limits.

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tresnosliramu22 · 3 months ago

>just leave them alone completely

just leave them out, really. pretend you don't care.

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Thimblinapie · 3 months ago

If the idol has a mask on and baseball cap/hoody hanging over their face, they don’t want to be bothered. No need to second guess this. At most, make eye contact and smile or wink. If they are not covered up, dressed nicely and have makeup on, I am not sure what’s best. You may just have to gauge how open they are to being approached based on body language. If their posture is confident and welcoming, go ahead and ask for an autograph or selfie.

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Any tips for first time kpop concert goers?

Posted by Zeechii · in r/BlackPink · 1 month ago

Hi, so next month I will be seeing Blackpink for the first time, I've only ever been to rock/metal gigs and have never experienced a kpop concert, I'm excited as Blackpink are my all time favourite group since 2019 and they were my introduction to kpop. However, I'm also very nervous as the fanbase for kpop is very different from the rock/metal fanbase. What should I expect and are there any rules I must abide by out of respect? And any tips are appreciated, thank u <3

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electric_boogaloo_72 · 1 month ago

Same boat as you, and here’s what I can tell you after seeing them:

You know how most rock concerts there can be a stigma against wearing the band’s shirt? Like a, “Don’t be that dude, that’s lame” type of attitude? Complete opposite for K-pop!

Wear that BLACKPINK shirt! Wave that lightstick proudly! Get all the accessories. DANCE. Dress up as your favorite girl from your favorite music video (if you’re a girl ofc). Show off everything BLACKPINK about you! If not, that’s totally fine too!

The vibe is so much friendlier and more fun, and fans are beyond ecstatic about the girls. The moment they hit the stage was magic (even though we were climbing to our seats lol) and the cheers continued each time each girl was on screen. Just an ocean of pink lights across 70,000 fans. That was my experience in LA and I’ll never forget it.

Just have the most fun ever without a care in the world! No one judges, no one cares; they’re all there for the girls!

Also there’s no opening act, and merch lines can be lonnnng, so get there early!!!!

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Zeechii · OP · 1 month ago

i'm the type to support the artist/band/group loudly and proudly, I wear all the merch, I buy all the merch, I will wave my lightstick very proudly, I will dance till my legs drop, put all that choreo learning to good use and dance with the Pinks hehehe I want to be part of the pink ocean of lightsticks, omg the LA show was so good, omg NO SUPPORT ACTS? That's a new experience for me!! and thank u, I will try my best to be early <3

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electric_boogaloo_72 · 1 month ago

I once saw a US indie band that had so many opening acts, they didn’t hit the stage until 1am! 😵 I may only go to k-pop concerts from now on lol.

But yayyyy so happy for you enjoying BP to the fullest!!!!

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lunchboxLegion · 1 month ago

keep in mind the crowd will likely be younger than a metal show.

each of the girls will have a solo stage, please cheer for them equally!!

you might be in a section with some people more focused on recording the show for content rather than enjoying it. these people are buzzkills and you should just ignore them.

lastly, have fun and get a lightstick if your budget allows!!

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Zeechii · OP · 1 month ago

Yeah I'm fully aware, and as I'm quite tall I'll be letting the youngens go infront of me like I do with short people at metal gigs, and YES I'm so hyped for their solo stages, I'm an OT4 fan, I love each of the girls equally <3

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BooksCatsnStuff · 1 month ago

People are friendly, you'll be ok.

As a side note, if you're taking pics or recording, please remember that you'll block the view of the people behind you if you have your hands up with your phone/camera. So try to keep that to a minimum. Plenty of people don't respect that but it should be common sense.

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Zeechii · OP · 1 month ago

Oh trust, like Jennie said at coachella "I want to see your phones down and hands up for this one"

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real-tough-kid13 · 1 month ago

Get a light stick if you can! The blackpink specific one. It's such a vibe at a k pop concert.

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Zeechii · OP · 1 month ago

I do own a lightstick but I think I either need to replace the batteries or the light stick's light is broken so I was thinking of purchasing a new one but not sure where to get one that is officially licenced and is the latest one, the one I have was a free gift from a seller on vinted

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MyBananaNoseNoBounds · 1 month ago

someone correct me if I’m wrong, but I don’t think the lightsticks sync to the concerts outside Korea, so it might not matter too much if you don’t get the official one. It’s either that or I’ve gone full boomer when I went to their toronto show. I got mine off amazon and it connected to the official app so I guess that’s one place to get a legit one. the newest version is version 2. you could also show up hours early and buy one at their merch store at the venue, but bring AAA batteries bc they don’t come with them

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MissRenixxii · 1 month ago

As someone who used to go to a lot of rock and metal shows, people at kpop shows are much nicer and less drunk haha.

Just have fun. Expect everyone to stand up during the show. There aren't any openers and the show will last 2-2.5 hours.

The cheering will be LOUD. Much more loud than any rock show ever will be lol.

Get a lightstick to remember the show by!

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Zeechii · OP · 1 month ago

I so will get a light stick! I'm not sure where the light sticks or merch stands will be for my concert in particular, it's London show, and I'm deffo prepared for the volume xD

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If you happen to see a kpop idol/group in public, is it rude to approach them or not?

Posted by HeavensWheel777 · in r/kpop_uncensored · 2 months ago

This scenarios hasn't happened to me but im curious. A lot of kpop stans stress the idea of leaving idols alone to let them enjoy their little free time they get, which i totally understand. And obviously, these idols dont want to be mobbed by groups of fans and get asked for pictures or autographs.

But I was wondering what was the harm in taking the opportunity to approach and say a simple "Hello, Im a fan, thank you for your music" or something like that. Short and sweet, just to show your appreciation. Plus, im sure certain idols like meeting fans here and there. But idk, what is like the expected behaviour to follow in this situation?

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whaIien52 · 2 months ago

this is the correct answer, beautifully articulated. analysing the situation and reading the room should be the first thing one does in this scenario. just wanted to add my own two cents here to further build on your point.

if one does choose to approach and say hello, keep it calm, keep it very brief, and as inconspicuous as humanly possible. if they are not working, don’t turn a personal outing into an unpaid work event for them (because yes, while they appreciate their fans, fan meets and fan calls are things they get paid to do). that means no pictures, no filming, no screaming, no autographs, no posting their whereabouts. do not treat them any differently than you’d treat a stranger whom you’d greet or compliment in passing.

if you are not capable of respecting them as a human being and not an object, which means abiding by these very common sense rules, you should not approach them at all.

(edited to fix some wording & grammar)

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yofavcity · 2 months ago

I don’t think just greeting them is a problem, not all fans can afford paying hundreds for fansigns or concerts

Edit: I didn’t mean you can go ask them for anything like the things you pay for. I meant that you could just say hi…

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mayfly42 · 2 months ago

Fans are not entitled to meet idols or other celebrities. People, regardless of their celebrity status, deserve privacy and space to just exist as human beings. While I would love to meet my faves, if I saw them out in the world shopping or out to dinner or something, I would do my best to leave them alone as I would any other regular human being.

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CoyNefarious · 2 months ago

I get what you mean, but I think it also depends on where and how.

JK said he wants fans to walk up to him and be like yeah, bdo, how you doing, and leave like friends. With regular fans following and just saying hi it's fine. Or when Enhypen was in Paris? And fans stopped and said love the music will go to the concert, and left, the guys seemed genuinely happy.

But like RM said he would prefer fans act like they don't know him when they see him in museums and stuff.

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Ikoris · 2 months ago

Idols have thanked fans for not acknowledging them on their private time. They like being "off".

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ScoobyLinny · 2 months ago

I mean yeah saying hi if you pass them isn't a problem, but that's about it. Fansigns or concerts are their work. If they're walking around outside, it's their free time.

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Gold_Meaning3688 · 2 months ago

Sometimes you can't tell, especially in public. A lot of groups film vlogs when they're out touring in different countries. I've seen vlogs of aespa and itzy members trying to interact with fans who are hesitant to talk to them, it's so cute

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kiwigal1715 · 2 months ago

I don't think there's anything wrong with saying hello if you recognise them somewhere but it depends on the situation and where you see them. One thing I would say is to be mindful of their location, I see so many fans running to social media to post about meeting/seeing idols and fans asking for the location. If you do want to say something I'd wait until the next day or even until they leave your city/country before sharing, it's just safer and respecting their privacy which they deserve.

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Fandam_YT · 2 months ago

This is right. I made this exact mistake and I still feel bad about it. Met an idol I was a fan of, posted a pic of us together on social media shortly after, and although I didn’t mention the location, my account was followed by a lot of others in the same fandom and some fans recognised the background as a cafe this idol was known to frequent.

Word spread and whilst I was still sat drinking my coffee there were fans showing up and trying to find him. He ended up leaving not long after and I wish I had waited before posting anything.

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Gold_Meaning3688 · 2 months ago

I think it depends on the situation AND the idol. I feel like some idols would want to recognised, but others might just want to get on with their day. Because of both possibilities, I don't think I could ever do anything more than watch them from a 1000km radius :)

I don't think i'd see an idol walking around moscow randomly, but if I did, I would probably try to check if greeting them would be interrupting or disturbing them first. Not that i'd be able to manage a hi without dissolving into thin air lol

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bustachong · 2 months ago

Totally this. Treat them like a person and read the room. Sometimes they want to be left alone and sometimes they’re open to meeting fans and appreciate the gesture. Check the vibe and if it’s the latter just express your appreciation while respecting their space.

Anecdotally a personal hero was like, randomly standing around when I was at Comic Con and I was like “would I be bothering them?” but seemed like he wasn’t in a rush to go anywhere so figured I’d shoot my shot and say hi & thanks and ended up having an actual conversation. Moreover, a year or so later he remembered me (as in, recalled specific details of the conversation) which floored me.

So yeah, you never know. That human connection can go a long way, emphasis on the “human” part of it.

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Difficult_Fish7626 · 2 months ago

I watched J-Hope on a Korean TV show and he was in L.A where he was shopping and fans politely asked to take a picture 

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Crash course in K-Pop concert in Korea etiquette

Posted by SkipDaRoo · in r/kpophelp · 1 month ago

Hi all I need some education fast please. I managed to grab a ticket for SBS Gayo daejeon this weekend.

As a white male 188cm 100kg I stand out normally in this environment I am a beacon. However I fear I have done something worse. When deciding on what to wear I thought I need merch to show you k ow I belong. Well I only had concert tshirt from BlackpInk deadline LA concert with me I thought no harm no foul they are not playing so it’s kpop neutral. There is no one and I mean no one wearing any kpop merch at all. Is this a no go zone? Yes light sticks yes paddle board thingies. But no tshirts at all

Have I mortally offended 15000 Koreans? If the hotel wasn’t so far away I would go home and change I am that freaked out right now.

Any etiquette lessons appreciated

Thanks

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Bid-Personal · 1 month ago

Fun fact: most people who dress up at concert in SK are foreigners. You will be fine though cos there are many foreigners there and Korean people are aware of that and don’t really care. Everyone minds their own business so you won’t feel out of place. Have fun!

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solariarealm · 1 month ago

From my experience going to concerts in Korea while I was studying abroad, many Korean fans don’t really dress up to attend concerts. They just show up in regular clothes and prefer to bring the lightstick and pickets. Me and a bunch of international people I met at a skz concert there were dressed up cuz we find it fun but we saw a lot of fans just in jeans and a sweater basically. Although sometimes the artists will give a dress code like a color and then you’ll see people more cohesive. Like I went to see ftisland and there’s kind of an unspoken dress code of wearing their color yellow so everyone just did it. But especially for things like sbs gayo daejeon that has multiple artists and is quite long, people just dress comfortably. I really don’t think you’ve upset anyone because a lot of people aren’t really paying attention and care more about their individual experiences. They already will know you’re a foreigner and might have some opinions but they’ll keep it to themselves. I’m also white if that makes a difference, and I never had anyone say anything to me. It’s just a different culture.

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Ok_Sir_7220 · 1 month ago

this basically. I've never seen a Korean wear a kpop shirt to a concert in Korea, but also they probably won't even give OP a passing glance to notice what they are wearing anyway. Just roll with it!

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fourevers · 1 month ago

u can do what u want lol even if theres a “dresscode” for korea events you dont need to follow it. so long as u dont wear anything overly offensive u’ll be fine

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umoamoment · 1 month ago

I don’t know what you did wrong to be honest. They even write online that there is no specific dress code, but they suggest you wear casual clothes.

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kpop concert etiquette needs to be taken more seriously

Posted by nikaazums · in r/kpop_uncensored · 6 months ago

i could say so much abt this i swear cuz so many people preach abt it but they don't really follow them

and its crazy because when you call these people out, THEY are the ones who get pissed at you lol

obviously its a concert and every single person there is entitled to how they want to enjoy the concert but things such as BASIC HYGIENE, RESPECT and SPATIAL AWARENESS should really really be a need

one example that always gets brought up but not super followed is raising ur phone/lighstick/banner above ur head 🙂‍↔️ ik everyone wants fancams but cmon... like ur already barricade and ur raising ur phone so damn high for what lol

as for hygiene pls pls pls if u dont want to do it for you, do it for the sake of your co- concert goers 😭

end of the day its really all abt respect.

anyways don't take this as an attack or anything since its just something that i've observed after going to multiple concerrs 🥸

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jitiymily · 6 months ago

Some concert etiquette guidelines:

• Phones, posters, lightsticks, etc. should not be held more than one foot in front of you and no higher than your forehead. Remove all cellphone topper charms during the show as well.

• Respect the concert culture of the country you are attending a concert in, and keep the concert culture in mind when purchasing a ticket. If it’s a country where the majority is sitting, expect to sit. If it is a country where majority is standing, expect to be surrounded by people standing.

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nikaazums · OP · 6 months ago

the hippers fr are a nightmare during concerts 😭 ur a real one op for including that

but i agree so much on the respecting concert culture of the country your attending the concert in esp when its not your own ><

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HuggyMonster69 · 6 months ago

Also, remember the participation expectations. It’s fine if you stay quiet, but where I am, it’s fine to sing along in general, but in SK, for example, you seem to be expected to shut up except for fan chants.

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CLAuthorNim · 6 months ago

I would add, if you’re ill, stay at home. Or at the very bare minimum, mask up.

I went to see Ateez in Manchester and so many people were ill afterwards because a select few went knowing they had flu / covid. And admitted so afterwards on social media

I get that it would be massively disappointing to miss out - but… so selfish

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nikaazums · OP · 6 months ago

u reminded me of another point i wanna make omg 😭

i get that people get excited when they do ments but like SCREAMING while they are talking and not letting them talk gets real annoying sometimes like ok scream when they firsr appear then let them talk 😀

during one of the events i attended, because of the excessive screaming, it made it seem that the crowd disrupted another member's ment huhu

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iglomise · 6 months ago

Yes! At TXT in Atlanta last year the members had to remind the crowd to please be quiet for a moment so they could talk. I was so frustrated. Listening is another way to show love.

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Admirable-Unit-3246 · 6 months ago

I feel like I can't comment, I am someone who thinks even having your phone out is annoying. You paid often 100s of $$ to go stare at your favorites through your phone.. "Oh but the memories" No. Respect those around you, the world doesn't revolve around you (You could use this saying against 99% of kpop fans tbh) 100s of people having their phones out vying for a spot in front of each other is dumb.

Your idol would much prefer when looking around to see faces, not phones and flashlights. Especially if they are doing any sort of walking around the crowd that some events allow. At that point, they are putting a show on for the camera, not for you.

I get why IU has rules about phones. Everyone is mature and gets to enjoy it together.

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nikaazums · OP · 6 months ago

i get your point dont worry! i also don't really understand those who watch on their phones the whole time huhuh

personally i believe that i've mastered the art of filming and watching them with my own eyes and not the phone which really changed my concert experiences ><

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candysticker · 6 months ago

I always cheer for the event staff too. Is that wrong?

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Patient-Nature4399 · 6 months ago

She screamed something like «you can sing too!! Sing!!» and then she took a photo of another person going to the concert and made fun of him. I stood behind her and saw it, not ok

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AnyPhilosophy8741 · 6 months ago

omg at my first concert I was doing that for the first few seconds of the songs without realizing cause I love the songs sm lmaoooo and I do that at home, but I caught myself immediately both times and stopped😭 was sooooo embarrassing

Well mot screaming but singing really loud and passionately lmao

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TestingAccount_567a · 6 months ago

If that happens I wouldn’t hesitate to scold them. Wtf.

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What do the fans and idols talk about during a fan meet?

Posted by StillAlive0 · in r/kpop · 6 years ago

I’ve watched a fair amount of videos of fan meetings and was curious as to what they actually talk about there since their facial expressions can range and change so easily. Is it just like a normal conversation with a friend?

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chenle · 6 years ago

there are many people who share accounts of their conversations at fansigns on twitter. if you search "fansign" on twitter there will be some from recent fansigns. for example, here is a thread of translated fan accounts that fans shared about taeil from nct from a fansign that happened today. the fans usually ask the idols questions about them/other members/stuff that happened recently, ask for music recommendations, compliment the idols, ask them to say/write down something that will cheer the fans on, etc

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bibimbeatz · 6 years ago

Oh god, I went to a fan sign once, and I had practiced saying "Come back again!" (또 와주세요!) in Korean to thank them for coming out to my city, but I got tongue-tied and just said "Help me!" (도와주세요!) which is pretty similar in pronunciation. He was SO CONFUSED.

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isayhoyousayya · 6 years ago

haha this is hilarious. who was the idol you were talking to?

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bibimbeatz · 6 years ago

It wasn't an idol group, but it was Dynamic Duo! I was talking to Choiza.

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rongbinz · 6 years ago

If you’re Eunji from Apink you scold and physically beat your fans for ditching school.

https://youtu.be/G5g0YwpC_Xw

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[deleted] · 6 years ago

Gotta go meet Apink and tell Eunji i skipped school to be there

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Ergand · 6 years ago

I planned out what I was going to say at a Twice hi-touch. Didnt matter, Jihyo smiled and said hi, and my brain went "alright have fun! I'll meet you at the end of the stage!" And everything came out as "hi"

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LymeMN · 6 years ago

Well i for one would be too nervous and starstruck to form a sentence. So id mumble incoherently for a few moments and then walk away thinking it was a fantastic experience.

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[deleted] · 6 years ago

Congratulations, you're ready to go to Kcon!

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LymeMN · 6 years ago

Oh ill be pre-nervous when i go there. 3 mental breakdowns and a solid cry will get me prepped.

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iamnothyper · 6 years ago

so, i did this for my b1a4 fansign. i wrote my post-it notes beforehand and when i went, i was told no post it notes allowed so i blanked out. twas great.

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Dessidy · 6 years ago

Personal experience: freaked out when Ren asked me something and I didn’t hear and answered something completely nonsensical. Asked Aron about tips for learning Korean faster as my mind blanked out on everything I had planned to say. Tried to tell JR that I wanted him to draw me an onibugi because I have his onibugis as discord and twitter profile images and a personal one would mean so much to me, then completely blanking our when he held my hand while drawing. Trying to say something to Baekho and then seeing a video of it online afterwards of him looking extremely confused and saving the situation by giving me a high five.
I don’t think anyone I’ve talked to that has been to a fansign has managed to be coherent enough for a proper conversation. Maybe the fansites who see them more often get used to it enough for conversations, but my personal experience was being too star struck and overwhelmed seeing them.

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Fan etiquette at concerts - NZ

Posted by chanely-bean1123 · in r/P1Harmony · 1 year ago

I can't believe im writing this, or thought I would need too, but my gosh the fan etiquette at the Auckland concert by a select few was atrocious.

It was not just disrespectful to the other fans in attendance, but more importantly it was disrespectful towards our idols. And talked besides the vips beong caged in for the meet and greet, was the one let down of the night.

I was in VIP Sseating and behind my group in the stands, was a group of 3ish females (girls and women) who decided it was appropriate to scream at the members during the ments. Trying to get their attention, every single time they did ments. And worse yet, screamed over top the members, and even screamed for members not saying the ments.

Not only was it distracting, but also disrespectful towards the members giving the ments.

It was noticed, and at one point, the other side decided since our side was doing it, they should too.

The members ignored it every time it happened. But im surprised they were able too as the people were as close to the stage as they could get. And i honestly commend the members for not only not acknowledging those people, but not saying anything either.

It was embarrassing, it was disrespectful and it was honestly disgusting behaviour for a concert. Im glad the members didnt acknowledge it,, but boy was it talked about between the concert goers as to how awful it was that people did that, throughout the concert, not once but for every single ment, abd and they screamed multiple times, during each ment. Most of us in VIP, actually hoped they would get kicked out for such behaviour, but weren't lucky enough for that to happen.

If you are going to these, please do not scream at the members durong ments, they deserve better, your fellow concert goers deserve better, and youll just be embarrassing yourselves.

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AccomplishedRough869 · 1 year ago

The Melbourne show tonight was just as bad. I had to leave early because there were quite a few people nearby with with blood-curdling screams (at all times) and another guy who kept screaming at the members while they were talking. I hope that concert etiquette hasn't left for good. 

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ebaefry · 1 year ago

i was there too, the random screaming was so unnecessary and kept ruining the vibe. like, the members aren’t going to respond to that so they should just stop?????

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AccomplishedRough869 · 1 year ago

That one guy who was constantly yelling at the group while they were talking had been to their last show (he was sitting infront of me) and was there with his mum. She didn't correct his behaviour or anything. He even had merch from the last show too. Tbh with this kind of behaviour they can call it out directly and have the people being disrespectful get what they want (attention from the group), call it out indirectly (in my opinion this is the best option) and set clear boundaries, or very ignore it (as they were clearly doing). They were making an obvious effort to not look at those people throughout the show. In this scenario it causes the well behaved fans to stop going due to toxic and unnecessary behaviour. I don't want to go to the next concert of its going to be the same. Sorry for the paragraph.

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chanely-bean1123 · OP · 1 year ago

This is exactly what we all thought at the AKL show.

This didnt happen at last years show, so we are guessing it new fans/ concert goers. But either way, they should know better, as it was awful for everyone.

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_aishhh · 1 year ago

OMGGG I know right?!! There was this girl right in front of me and she kept screaming like crazy like every time keeho said anything she’s would go like “F**K YEAHH!!” So loud like excuse me have some respect?!??

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Merliah-SummerSparkl · 1 year ago

the chicago show went pretty well, but i am sure someone has videos of the times when they were trying to talk and were being screamed over. keeho even said something like “who was that?” to try to make a joke of it because they were so loud. it sucked too because every time soul or jseob tried to talk they had to keep starting over. like english is already their second/third language, and they’re performing right now, i can’t imagine how much more stress those fans add !!!

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PiscesIsMySign · 1 year ago

Ikr ! The girl who was screaming was standing RIGHT BEHIND ME. She was nearly screaming the whole time but I didn’t have the guts to tell her to calm down but she was deafening me. It was my first concert too so I didn’t know if it was inappropriate to scream all the time I just assumed that it was normal.

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chanely-bean1123 · OP · 1 year ago

Haha its not normal AT ALL. I went to the P1 concert last year and it was amazing... Noone screamed out during ments... Yes screaming is normal to a degree, but not all the time, and certainly not when he members are actually trying to speak. Thats just disrespectful.

I really hope they come back next year... If they do, me and my friends are getting full vip, and im going to be prepared for aby putz doing this to the members

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Dismal-Salt-8055 · 1 year ago

i went to their houston show and there were girls behind me doing the same thing plus yelling at soul to speak ????? just obnoxious and rude.

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bingbingxin · 1 year ago

Now that I read this post and those comments, I’m starting to think that Macau’s concert wasn’t that bad….

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What happens at fan meetings? :/

Posted by VixenxVexiss · in r/kpophelp · 4 years ago

I'm about to drop some money for a fan meeting but I never been to one. Do the fans gets to do a 1 on 1 for 2 mins with the artist(s) ? Is it a personal meet or is it like vlive? Where we talk to the artist(s) through chat and hope to be noticed lol. There's an option to get memorable merch for that day...but shipping is outrageous. I can understand why bc overseas. :/ Can someone help a girl out and tell me there own personal experience. Maybe it might help me make my decision.

Thanks so much! ♡

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MadamBeramode · 4 years ago

Fan meetings and fansigns are two different things, so let me explain that.

A fan meeting is typically like a mini-concert/social event where the group talks to their fans while performing songs and playing games. Its a pretty relaxed environment in comparison to a full concert.You buy a ticket and you get in. Fan meetings don't typically have the audience talk with the idols.

A fansign is where fans buy albums and hopefully get into the fansign. You will then interact directly with the idols in your group and you'll receive a signed album out of it.

tl:dr You will not interact with the idols during a fan meeting but you will with a fan signing.

Fansigns are much more expensive to get into because they require you purchasing a large amount of albums. Online fansigns are taking place, but they are extremely expensive because the pool of applicants is much larger (people around the world vs people in Korea) and due to the shipping of the albums. If you're buying like 25 albums, it can easily cost you like $200+ USD in shipping.

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VixenxVexiss · OP · 4 years ago

Oh okay! That is alot of money. I get it now. Thank you for the more details.

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soshifan · 4 years ago

Fan meetings are kind of like concerts, except there's less songs and more fu segments where groups play some random games or interact with fans (on online fansigns they might read some comments, or video call fans who have been chosen beforehand after applying for example).

I think you're confusing fan meetings with fansign events - you get to video call idols during fansigns and you apply by buying their albums.

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VixenxVexiss · OP · 4 years ago

I think so too. But fan sign events are not happening bc covid right? I was getting confused bc I saw some past videos of twice where fans were talking to the girls individual through video. So this clears it up. Thank you.

Have you personally bought any merch from a fan sign or fan meeting?

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Dessidy · 4 years ago

In-person fansigns events aren’t happening, so they have replaced them with video call fansigns, where you get to 1:1 chat with the idol. There’s some events where you apply for a specific member, and other for the whole group.

You apply for the events by buying albums. The more popular the group is, the more albums you’ll need to buy to get in. Fansigns don’t have merch besides the album that you get signed, and some who give out special photocards with the sold albums.

Fanmeeting merch is just like concert merch.

Twitter account tracking video call fansign announcements

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soshifan · 4 years ago

No, fansigns are still happening! Because of pandemic they happen through video calls, in normal circumstances fansign is an event where you can meet and talk to idols in person. And I haven't bought any so i can't help with that ��

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Concert questions.

Posted by freshahvahcahdu · in r/BlackPink · 2 months ago

I've never been to a kpop show and my best friend and I are going to the BP show in Chicago. Neither of us have attended one and do not know what to expect, especially as part of the older crowd.

What are some good tips or general rules to follow to enjoy a kpop show? What about song chants and whatnot? I've been into BP for some time and love their music, got my friend into them and we're both excited but want to make sure we follow along with the rest of the crowd/blinks!

Any help would be appreciated. 🙂

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SigmaKnight · 2 months ago
  1. Drink Water.
  2. Wear weather-appropriate and comfortable clothing.
  3. Drink something with electrolytes (Gatorade or Powerade are usual go-tos).
  4. Have hearing protection. (Can be too loud even for outdoor concert.)
  5. Wear sun protection.
  6. Have a rain jacket/poncho in case of rain.
  7. Drink Water.
  8. Get there really early if you want to buy any merch.
  9. Be courteous to those around you.
  10. Don’t throw anything.
  11. Have fun and enjoy the show.
  12. Drink Water.

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This thread has several fanchants.

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ScudStreams · 2 months ago

Going to my 3rd BP concert during this upcoming tour. I am generally not a live music person and not the most common demographic for their shows.

All that being said, I don’t see a ton of people doing specific chants. Just have a positive attitude, get a light stick from the merch booth before the show, and have fun!

Oh, and don’t scream out the words to all the songs. Singing along is fine, expected, and good! But screaming takes away the fun for others

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sxphdlgdx_ · 2 months ago

I just bought floor seats to the LA show on Saturday, and I fear I won’t know how to act 😭 I’m already so excited tho lol

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phogaaa · 2 months ago

Does anyone know how much earlier to come for the merch if the concert starts at 8pm? It’s my first time going to a BP concert too

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Imma-Insert · 2 months ago

It's been mentioned, but not nearly stressed enough: bring concert grade ear protection.

Regarding how to conduct yourselves, just follow those around you and you'll be fine. Also, you'll likely spend quite a bit of time standing so be prepared for that.

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greydt · 2 months ago

Last time I saw BP was also a stadium show in the summer - make sure you’re prepped for the heat. Saw more than a few people taken away by medical personnel due to heat issues.

Otherwise, just have fun! My greatest kpop concert experience was a BP one - it starts raining just when they start singing “Lovesick Girls”. BP was “why not” and they just walk right out into the rain while continuing to perform. It was just awesomely freeing to be vibing to the music, waving the light stick, wiping rain from your eyes while the crowd around you goes nuts.

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How to attend fan meetings?

Posted by mintch0co89 · in r/kpophelp · 5 years ago

Hi, I'm currently in Seoul for a bit, and I was wondering how k-pop fans get to attend fan meets? For example, TXT have been having a lot of fan meetings recently and I'd like to attend one, but I just don't know how or where to get any information at all.... Can anyone help me out? Thanks! :)

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[deleted] · 5 years ago

usually a group will post all the info on their website (: they‘ll post a time period during which fans can purchase albums and also where to buy the albums to enter the raffle to join the fansigns!

i think it‘d be the same for txt!

so you‘d have to check txt‘s website to see if they‘re doing a fansign and when and where you can buy albums to enter the raffle!! if you have some friends who want albums it’s a good idea to make a deal where you‘ll buy albums for them in that store and get money back later from them (:

then you don’t have to spend so much money on trying to get in!! (or you‘ll just sell the albums later!) good luck ♡

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Dessidy · 5 years ago

Do you mean fansign? Fanmeets are more like concerts but with more talking, and if that’s what you’re looking for NU’EST have a fanmeet this weekend that’s on sale for 55k won/ticket.

But if you mean the personal sign sessions with limited attendance, then it’s fansigns you’re looking for. This twitter lists all fansigns in Seoul. But be prepared that the chances of getting into a fansign for a popular group is low, unless you buy like 100 albums (BTS, EXO, Seventeen are probably more). So it’s a huge investment.

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Etiquette at kpop fan meetings

Key Considerations for K-Pop Fan Meeting Etiquette

  1. Respect Personal Space: Always respect the personal space of idols and fellow fans. Avoid crowding or pushing, as this can make others uncomfortable.

  2. Follow Event Rules: Adhere to the specific guidelines set by the event organizers, including rules about photography, autographs, and interactions. These rules are in place for safety and to ensure a smooth experience.

  3. Be Polite and Courteous: Use polite language and gestures when interacting with idols. A simple bow or a respectful greeting can go a long way.

  4. Limit Physical Contact: While some idols may be open to hugs or handshakes, it’s best to wait for their cues. Always prioritize their comfort and boundaries.

  5. No Aggressive Behavior: Avoid shouting, pushing, or any aggressive behavior. This can create a chaotic environment and is generally frowned upon.

  6. Be Mindful of Time: Fan meetings often have strict time limits. Be concise during your interactions to allow everyone a chance to meet the idols.

  7. Stay Positive: Maintain a positive attitude and encourage others to do the same. Fan meetings are meant to be enjoyable for everyone involved.

Takeaways:

  • Always be respectful and courteous.
  • Follow the event's specific rules and guidelines.
  • Keep interactions brief and positive.

Recommendation: If you're unsure about specific etiquette, consider observing how other fans behave during the event. This can provide insight into the expected norms and help you feel more comfortable.

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