I married all the singles and Elliott has my favorite 14 hearts event.

Funny, I’m romancing Elliot as a male farmer right now. He’s probably the most controversial marriage candidate. Overconfident maybe arrogant, but to the point where he reveals his own self-criticism and just wants people to like him, probably the way he has idolized the lead in a romance novel, Fabio-like charisma is what makes people like you… He also doesn’t wait for consent to kiss you in this cut scene…

So, I’m genuinely trying to convince myself to marry him but part of me wants to marry Sam because I’ve never married him. I wish that concernedape just fleshed out his character a little bit more post marriage (not exactly sure but from what I’ve heard, he doesn’t have the depth of character development that Haley has, for instance).

He really likes any artisans goods like maple syrup, pine tar, mayonnaise, fruit jelly, etc. He also loves tulips and likes basics flowers. Elliot is my favorite!

That event only triggers between 7am and 1pm so make sure you're going between those times. You also don't need to see this event in order to propose; as long as you're at 10 hearts he'll accept the pendant. In theory you could marry someone without actually seeing any of their heart events.

i loooove elliott, his wiki page was super helpful in terms of schedule and loved gifts. he’s an interesting character and i found his cutscenes to be the most compelling ones. he’s a great husband too, SO sweet and romantic, and gives u wine at 6am. worth the effort imo <3

yeah I married him my first playthrough. you can look up anyone's schedule on the stardew wiki, it's very helpful

he’s v romantic, i haven’t been married to him long but i like him lol

I did (before I divorced him). He hangs out a lot on the bridge to the beach in the afternoon.

I did marry Elliot. We had a son so I named him Fabio!! He usually hangs out down by his cabin by the ocean. Someone mentioned his wiki page will help you find out his schedule and his favorite gifts!!

I have been dreading this decision in my playthrough too. Elliott and Sebastian were always the 2 I was the most interested in since the beginning and I’m dreading the day where I have to finally pick. My approach thus far is to let my relationships with all the love interests come naturally, like as if I’m getting to know them for real.

For example and funnily enough, the one I have the most hearts right now with are Harvey (idk how that happened, it just turned out that way). Yet I don’t plan to marry him because I don’t feel like I’d be happy with him in the end if it was real life. However, other characters like Alex and Leah have surprised me and are making me question my choices. I know for a fact there are some characters I would never consider and there are others that I feel I would have a strong connection with irl.

So in summary, my advice is to go with who you think you would connect with the most irl. Would you rather have an Elliott or a Sebastian in your every day life? Which one aligns with your views of life the most? Which one do you think would be the most interested in you? Once you answer those questions, the answer should become more clear.

Elliot is the LOML - he pursues his dreams even while married and he tells you that married life is so much healthier for him than being alone :')

Elliot 100% his marriage story oh lawd

Seb is my husband always and I’d never change it, but I also don’t like Elliot as much as you.

Seb really does have this quiet kind of depth that just pulls you in. He feels like home in a hoodie. I totally get the 100%. Though I’ll admit, a part of my heart still swoons for Elliott’s dramatic charm and sea-writer vibes… he was my first in-game crush after all! This is why it’s so hard!

I always pick Elliott, because of how sweet and romantic they can be. Whether or not they "belong on the farm" they belong in my farmer's life and have no issue being there.

Harvey's 10 heart event melted my heart, and he's such an adorable loving husband so I want to recommend him! I'm not sure if the fem mod changes dialogue, but the original at least is definitely worth a go if you want to feel loved and appreciated (after marriage that is, before that his dialogue is pretty dull)

Try Emily or Maru!

Just go with Penny a second time breh, like you know you want to. Besides, as far as music themes go, you can’t beat that 50s chord progression.

I married him because I think his over the top is funny. And I found his 14 heart event laugh out loud funny. He’s sweet but doesn’t give a lot of presents. Morning coffee sometimes. Rarely dinner on rainy nights. I almost never get dinner from him. He feeds the animals and waters crops. But I have sprinklers and upgraded buildings so it’s useless except for the dogs water bowl.

Never made it to husband with him, but I loved him as a bf, working on it. Supposedly he'll occasionally help with chores or cook dinner. Better chance of the latter if it's raining I heard. But I'm mostly commenting to wish you a happy cake day!

He’s cheesy, but sweet in nature. Tries to wax poetic, but comes off as a dork. No major backtracking in character development.

He’s not terrible, but he’s not the best either. He’s good if you like to fish because he gives you seafood meals and he’ll make coffee usually 2-3 times a week.

Great question! I need this information too

I proposed to Haley and panicked because I didn't have time to put the actual wedding gown together so I bought the long skirt from Sandy and dyed the most appropriate shirt I had and thankfully had a viel and ran around for two days.

Chaos must remain supreme. She's the only one I remembered to wear my best for 😂

I did not although I would love to. Just married Penny in my farmer overalls and squid hat 😅

there's wedding clothes you can wear? I've always married then I'm my farm clothes

Nah I dressed up a little but didn't bother finding wedding style clothes lol

Nope lol I make Haley take me as I am in my farm clothes as payback lol

On a similar note the only reason Linus is so well liked and well received by the community is because he is who you see and talk to the most due to trips to the mine

And his story even is the easiest one to trigger

Give him 1-2 fruits and walk into town

Everyone who knows you can give NPCs gifts. has seen his heart event

I get the feeling Elliot isn't bound by convention.

Lol :) this made my day!

Not as bad as Clint when you're married to Emily.