TL;DR To marry in Stardew Valley, reach 10 hearts with a single villager, give them a bouquet, and then propose with a Mermaid's Pendant on a rainy day. The wedding will occur three days later.
Building the Relationship
Marriage in Stardew Valley requires building a strong relationship with one of the eligible villagers marked as "single" in the Social tab. To start dating, you need to earn 8 hearts by giving gifts and interacting with your chosen partner. Once at 8 hearts, you can purchase a bouquet from Pierre's General Store to officially begin dating [2:1].
Proposing Marriage
After reaching 10 hearts, you can propose marriage. This involves purchasing a Mermaid's Pendant from the Old Mariner, who appears on the beach during rainy days after you've repaired the bridge for 300 wood [5:1]
[5:2]. Note that the proposal can only be made if you have upgraded your house at least once to accommodate your future spouse
[5:1].
The Wedding Day
Once you propose, the wedding will automatically take place three days later. The event occurs before you wake up on the morning of the wedding day, so there is no way to miss it [1:2]. If the wedding does not happen, it may be due to a glitch, especially if you're playing on platforms like the Switch, which has reported some issues
[1:3].
Post-Marriage Life
After marriage, your spouse will move into your farmhouse and contribute to daily chores, such as feeding animals or watering crops. They also provide unique benefits and may give you gifts or cook meals [4:1].
Choosing a Partner
All marriage candidates are playersexual, meaning your character's gender does not affect your choice. Some players find Haley an easy candidate due to her love for daffodils, which are abundant in the first year spring [5:1].
In my first play through I proposed to Sebastian the day of the moonlight jellies event (romantic I know) and it said the wedding would take place in 3 days but it never happened. Was it because it was in different months? Or what do I do? The day of the wedding does the event happen when I wake up or? Help a girl out pls
The wedding will happen even before you wake up on that day. There is no way to miss it. If you are sure the day has passed (check the calendar) it's a glitch. Playing with any mods that may be messing with it?
I play on my switch so no mods. I think it was a glitch, not sure why though
1.6 has been kind of mean to the Switch, with odd glitches here and there. Though I just did a run on switch, and my marriage went fine.
Where is your would-be spouse? Do they still talk as if the wedding is coming? How many possible hearts do they have? If they are now your spouse, they should have more possible ones.
If all else fails, go get a new mermaid pendant on a rainy day, and just give it to him again.
Running in to yell "I object!" While also standing at the altar.
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And how long does it take
If you have their favorite gifts and talk to them every day, I would say about 2 or 3 seasons
How long does it take to start dating a character
About 2 or 3 seasons, once your dating then it will only take a couple weeks to get them to 10 hearts
You put the lime in the coconut...
In singleplayer mode, Marriage is possible only with a villager who is marked as "single" in the Social tab. For marriage between players in a Multiplayer game, see Multiplayer and Wedding Ring.
Before proposing marriage, you need to earn 10 hearts of friendship with your intended partner, which requires you to give them a bouquet (at 8 hearts of friendship). You will also need to repair the bridge east of Elliott's cabin (costs 300 wood) and upgrade the farmhouse at least once.
One of the library's Lost Books, entitled "Marriage Guide for Farmers", also explains the process.
““Before you ask someone to marry you, you'll have to date them for a while first (Ask someone to date you with a bouquet from Pierre's).
When you're ready to pop the big question, you'll need to give them a 'Mermaid's Pendant'. Everyone knows what it means when you present them with one of those.
It's rumored that on stormy days, the ghost of an old mariner appears in Stardew Valley, clutching just such a pendant.
After the wedding ceremony, your partner will move in with you. Remember to treat your spouse well... They still like gifts even after marriage!
(Paid for by Pierre)”
I finally got all I needed to propose to my girlfriend on stardew valley! I hope to do it in real life someday as well :D
Relationship goals!
Now do it IRL /j +/lh
Oh boy I cannot wait until I can
I’m the girlfriend (stardew fiancé) wouldn’t have it any other way🫶🫶🫶
This is so cute I’m dying 💕💕💕💕
Me too
Mah wife :D
Adorable🥲
Congratulations
Anybody know if marriage is possible yet, and how? And what happens after marriage? Do they move in and help with the farm or anything?
Not yet but it will be coming. You can romance and have quests and some cutscenes for now
I am new to the game and want help. How do I get married in the game? My character is male btw.
What is the easiest girl candidate I could marry rn in the game?
To elaborate on Stranger Kadaaju’s words, you need 300 wood to repair the beach bridge, which is to the right of Elliots cabin
All candidates are playersexual, so your character's gender doesn't matter.
Easiest would be Haley; just give her all your daffodils from first year spring and dance with her during the Flower Festival (provided you've reached 4 hearts with her by then) and you'll probably be able to marry her before the end of summer. (you'll need to have upgraded your cabin at least once)
To get married, first reach 8 hearts with your target candidate. Buy them a bouquet from Pierre's. Then reach 10 hearts. Wait for rain (or use rain totem), go to beach, fix the bridge, and find the old mariner NPC at the top right corner of the map. Buy pendant. Give pendant to target candidate. Wait 3 days. You're married. Congratulations.
Edit: I mean where to find the thing to get someone marry the player
Get them up to 8 hearts by giving gifts, buy them a bouquet and continue giving gifts they love until they're at 10 hearts. When they're at 10 hearts, give them a mermaids pendant (found by the dude that only appears on the left side of the beach on rainy days) and make sure your house has been upgraded at least once. That's all there is to it.
Thanks for the info
I would look at the wiki though so you can gauge the bachelor/bachelorette what they love and not give them something they hate https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Stardew_Valley_Wiki
It’s the right side not the left side. :)
I don’t know specifically what kind of help you need but here are basics: -bouquet for eligible bachelor/bachelorette when your at 8 hearts to start dating -At ten hearts I you can marry them if you have a upgraded house and repair the wooden bridge on the beach -on rainy days there’s a dude on the other side of the repaired bridge who will sell you a mermaids pendant for 5k. Give the pendant to your significant other and wait a few days for the wedding!
Sorry for the confusion you might had. Anyways, thanks for the info.
for multiplayer you buy the recipe from the travelling merchant in cindersap woods on fridays and sundays then you need five iridium bars and one prismatic shard to craft a wedding ring
First, you must get them to 8 hearts. This must be done by talking to them, and if you give them two loved gifts in a week they will go up a heart (at least for me it did). For example, if you want to marry Leah she loves salad, so buy that from Gus or get the recipe from Emily, who loves cloth, wool and gems, however she likes diamonds less than other gems, but more than most stuff. You can see what an NPC loves in the wiki. Once they are at 8 hearts, the net cat day you will get a letter from Pierre. He will now sell bouquets for 200g. Buy a bouquet and give it to your spouse option. If they are at 8 hearts they will accept. Then, get them to ten hearts. This might take the normal amount to get to, i don’t know as I gave Emily cloth on her birthday, which gives a lot more friendship points. When your girlfriend/boyfriend is on 10 hearts, the next day mayor Lewis will send you a letter about the mermaid pendant. You can buy this from the old mariner. He appears on the right side of the beach (unlocked by using 300 wood on the bridge), but only on rainy days. You pay 5000g for the pendant, give it to your girlfriend/boyfriend on 10 hearts, they will accept and the ceremony will take place in three days :)
Do we have to get married or can we take our time and enjoy all of the other stuff the game has to offer?
In my first play through, I didn’t talk to anyone for two seasons.
Marriage is optional
You can do want you want the people aren't going anywhere and you don't have to get married
You can do whatever you want in the game (: there’s no correct way to play
I know this isn’t in the spirit of the community, but the way you type your smile makes me want to punch someone.
I’ll go play some stardew to work out my aggression :)
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I’m sorry.... that’s just the way that I type. It isn’t meant to come off as mean or harmful.
Or, hear me out, you could do a headstand
You dont have to do anything that you don't want to do. Play the game in a way that is fun for you.
On our first date we played Stardew Valley together, and I grinded to get really good at the fishing minigame to impress him. It was just an incredibly sweet way to propose considering how deep the game is tied to our early relationship especially 🥺 I still joke that all the hard work to get good at fishing is what won him over 😆
I do my best to give the people what they want.
But! Seriously, may you have many years of happiness ahead and may all your melons be planted in a 3x3 grid and be giant size.
Well, whenever you do decide to marry, make sure you're wearing your dress the NIGHT before! lmao
Congratulations!
That's adorable, I have thought about getting my wife one but never found one I was really impressed with. Where did he get it?
I can also vouch for this shop! Did the same thing for my now husband 3 years ago :)
Haha, I wish you two the best!
8 heart event really sealed the deal
it was meant to be the moment I caught the legend spring year 1 😆🫶
So 26th mars 2026?
Look... I'm happy for you. But you really need to consider if you legitimately want to marry a man who proposed with an item taken from Stardew Valley. Think about this long term and if this is really the kind of person you want to spend your life with.
I mean at any given time he could just decide to turn your kids into doves, and then the next thing you know you have haunted dolls coming out of your television. These are all marinara flags is all I am saying.
Seriously though; congratulations and that is super cute.
Hello! I’ve just started playing, just a quick question can I marry someone who is already married? I had my eyes on someone and then I got a wedding invitation 💔
I think you know what you have to do to get your true love back 😈☠️🎂
It’s happening 🙂↕️ I’m getting my man
You have to get rid of the spouse, they won't marry you if they're already married.
Ahh thank you! 🫶🏼
OOHH this game is brutal!
I didn’t expect it 😅 I didn’t know anything about it until I bought it 😭
I got her hearts to full besides the two grayed out. But Pierre won't give me the go ahead to buy the flowers. Does the main farmer have to unlock it first?
did you buy the expansion for the house you might not be able to proceed with your relationship until you have the expanded house. There's something about needing a kitchen.
Yeah i did upgrade my "cabin" and the actual house is upgraded too.
You unlock the bouquet the day after you reach 8 hearts, unless that’s a Wednesday, in which case it’ll be unlocked the day after.
Sadly I got through all 8 hearts a season ago but nothing has happened yet. Its the multiplayer on ps4 which is new so it might just be a bug
Grab the glock
how to marry in stardew valley
Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to marry in Stardew Valley:
Build a Relationship:
Gift Giving:
Get the Mermaid Pendant:
Propose:
Prepare for the Wedding:
Post-Wedding:
Key Considerations:
Recommendation: Focus on building relationships early in the game, as it can take time to reach the required friendship levels. Use the calendar to keep track of birthdays, as giving gifts on these days provides a significant friendship boost!
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