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Open-Ended Toys
Open-ended toys are consistently praised across discussions for their ability to grow with children and encourage imaginative play. Items such as blocks (e.g., Keva Planks or Jenga sets), Magnatiles, and Duplo/Megablocs are popular choices [1:5]
[2:4]. These toys allow children to build and create freely, which helps develop problem-solving skills and creativity.
Role-Play and Real-World Mimicry
Toys that mimic real-world activities are particularly engaging for toddlers. Play kitchens, toolsets, and garden tools allow children to imitate adult behaviors and learn through imaginative play [2:1]
[2:7]. This type of play is beneficial for developing motor skills and understanding daily life tasks.
Art Supplies and Creative Outlets
Art supplies such as crayons, paints, and chalkboards provide an excellent outlet for creativity and self-expression [1:3]
[2:2]. Encouraging artistic activities can help children develop fine motor skills and explore their imagination. Some parents even let their children draw on windows, using special pencils that make cleaning easy
[1:3].
Interactive and Sensory Play
Sensory play items, such as sand toys, water toys, and sensory bins with soap and water, are effective at engaging toddlers [2:2]
[4:2]. These activities promote hand-eye coordination and teach basic life skills like pouring. Additionally, interactive play with caregivers is emphasized as one of the most educational experiences for young children
[4:4].
Avoiding Digital Components
Many commenters advise against toys with digital components, emphasizing that they often detract from caregiver interaction and creative play [1:2]
[4:1]. Instead, focus on toys that encourage physical activity, storytelling, and exploration without relying on screens.
In conclusion, selecting educational toys that foster creativity, mimic real-world activities, and encourage interaction can significantly benefit a child's development. Consider these types of toys to provide engaging and educational experiences for your children.
Hello everyone! We're trying to find educational toys that are interesting and fun for for our 3 year old daughter. We're thinking of toys/kits that'll help them develop/practice their interests on. We plan to homeschool her, btw. What would you recommend? TIA!
Per this AAP publication https://publications.aap.org/aapnews/news/7727/Best-toys-for-children-s-development-Hint-They-are?autologincheck=redirected the best toys are ones that will encourage your child to interact with their caregivers and encourage exploring and problem solving. Blocks and figures (ie dolls, stuffed animals, plastic figurines or vehicles) are good because you can both develop motor skills as well as tell stories with them (Lets build a zoo for your animals for example). Balls and toys like them for group games are not only good exercise but help with learning how to negotiate play with others.
Toys with digital components that may prevent caretaker interaction seem to be less potentially valuable in that regard but that doesnt mean you cant have any of them, just that it looks like the AAP is saying the most important thing is toys that encourage interaction.
If you’re looking at an older child, you can extend that basic idea into things like those kits you can do as a family like growing crystals or make a robot, or if you want to do arts skills the same thing, draw together or make music together or dance together. That i dont have a source for but kids seems to learn well when their play can either mimic an adult behavior or allow for interaction between their caretakers and eventually their peers
Thank you for this! Very helpful. I especially agree with this part:
>Toys with digital components that may prevent caretaker interaction seem to be less potentially valuable in that regard but that doesnt mean you cant have any of them, just that it looks like the AAP is saying the most important thing is toys that encourage interaction.
I don't like giving her toys with digital components (does tablets for kids count?). It's scary since I saw other parents do this and the child becomes more and more dependent on electronics that it becomes the only thing that can calm them down when they're agitated/having tantrums.
Re: blocks. Keva Planks I highly recommend. I got some for free but they're a little pricey new for being basically wood blocks. If you can't justify the price tag, my favorite plaything growing up was a giant ziplock containing several combined Jenga sets. Dimensions matter, you want a lot of the same block and you want them several times longer than they are wide so cantilevered structures can be built.
A blackboard: lmk
Good pencils and paints. These are gorgeous and even scribbles can look good. If you’re brave you can let your child draw on your windows too.
https://www.stabilo.com/uk/products/colouring-drawing/colouring-pencils/stabilo-woody-3-in-1/
Toys that get them outdoors, like a mud kitchen( or make your own):
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00131881.2023.2285762#abstract
Things to count and separate. That can be lots of an existing toys if they have for example a dinosaur collection. You can also get Montessori counting sets
These are great ideas. Thanks!
Thanks for the suggestion! I'll definitely consider this.
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Help! I’ve bought so many things that seemed promising, only for my toddler to play with the box it came in instead. Looking for the best kids educational toys that are toddler-approved, not just flashy but genuinely engaging and age-appropriate.
Would love to hear what your toddlers loved around 2–3 years old. Especially into toys that grow with them or come with ideas for how to use them creatively!
I'll be frank that a lot of it is suuuuper kid-dependent...for example, my current toddler (almost 3) LOVES puzzles at this stage, whereas his big brothers had zero interest.
Open-ended toys are a good way to go. The few toys that all three of my kids had some interest in in that age range besides books are: art supplies, Brio trains, blocks/magnatiles for creative play.
Sand toys and water toys as well were two categories that all my kids as well as the kids I've worked with at daycares and preschools have enjoyed in this age range- simple buckets, shovels and forms. Outdoor play is pretty much the best kind of educational play for toddlers whenever it's viable as they learn from nature, being creative with things like sticks and leaves, different textures etc.
Yes, search for “open ended toys” to encourage imagination
It will depend a lot on your child’s interests. My kid found one of my calculators and was fascinated, so I got her a talking calculator with large buttons (typically marketed to adults with vision problems). She uses it daily in the car 🤷♀️ we also got a toy from learning resources (I think). It lets the kid build a structure out of blocks, then turn on the base so that it shakes equivalent to various levels of earthquake. She loves painting on her easel. We’ve also grown ladybugs and butterflies and planted trees. All, some, or none of this may interest your kid. At our house, the Duplos and magnatiles go largely ignored.
My daughter found an old calculator and loves it. Never thought of anything fancy like that!
Love the talking calculator idea
The Yoto or tonie box have got a lot of use from my friend group. I have a yoto we use at bedtime but when it comes to playing with it she just puts the cards in and out all the time and doesn't listen to the stories.
magnatiles seem to be a hit. I have a newborn so I'm not comfortable having magnets in the house although I think magnatiles are designed to not be easily swallowed
Megablocs and duplo have been massive hits in our house
My 5 year old still enjoys the Tonisbox she got given for her 1st birthday.
Also someone above mentioned role-play stuff, and that's the same. You can often pick them up cheap on Facebook marketplace second hand but in good condition. My partner's work room is half converted into a role play room, with a play kitchen, shop and a table and chairs as a cafe. Keeps her busy while my partner is working.
my almost 3 year old loves anything that mirrors the 'real' (adult) world. So things like his play kitchen, play tools like a hammer, screwdriver, drill etc, kid sized garden tools, anything that he sees the adults around him use but then kid sized or age appropriate :) it helps him develop necessary motor skills, mirror behaviour and learn imaginative play
Agreed in general… but the occasional flipside of this is that my toddler still desperately wants the adult sized broom so I end up sweeping small messes in the kitchen with their mini toddler broom set. 😂
That's hilarious, we have a similar situation with our toddler wanting to use the adult rake and I end up raking my lawn with the tiny one!
This is us. Except when he sees me using the toddler broom he wants it too.
So now I get out a third broom and whenever he grabs the one I'm using I just let him have it and switch to using the one he dropped.
Crayons and the box that the Costco groceries came in
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All toys are educational. Activities that don’t involve toys are educational. I add on things that aren’t toys like having bubbly/soap water in a large Tupperware that they pour with a measuring cup into another. Toddler probably enjoys that more than any toy. (Sensory, life skill - pouring/hand eye coordination just to name a few)
Another hit is painting cars then “car wash” in Tupperware with soap n water.
Thank you !
Toddlers have to learn about a millions different things to learn and every moment of every day is a learning opportunity. Is there a specific need you're trying to address?
No
You interacting with them
Being outside
Unstructured play
Creative and imaginative play
"Open ended toys"
I don't know the most educational, but a guiding light that I've used is that anything that requires batteries is going to be one of the LEAST educational toys I could provide. I use this guideline when people ask what gifts to get my kid too.
Hello moms!!
What are the best educational toys/ books / any particular item that you purchased that your child was interested in long term?
I have kids aged 8 months, 3 years and 5 years
I have lots of puzzles, books, arts and crafts etc. I was looking to purchase something new that is interesting.
Please share any small business or amazon links that you know of.
I have a 11 month old and don't know much about it, but from all the Insta reels, apparently gel tiles, pikler triangle and Lego's last a lot longer.
I have a 3 year old and my oldest is turning 5. Whenever we buy them toys, they play with them for a little bit and then they don’t seem interested in them anymore.
We ended up giving away a lot of toys, and now they mainly just want baby alive dolls and hatchimals, but hatchimals are very small and they always end up losing them or they chew on them...
My oldest wants another baby alive doll for her birthday, and even though I’ll most likely get it for her, I was just wondering what other toys around that age do they actually play with often?
Agreed. My kids play with all sorts of things, mostly because we rotate them out and they seem "new" again.
The ones we don't rotate around are Hot Wheels cars and a couple of mats with buildings, dinosaurs, the play kitchen and food, and some dolls.
My 4 year old is currently obsessed with picasso tiles (like magnatiles but cheaper). He spends probably an hour a day on them (which is a lot, considering he's at school all day).
I teach preschool and our magnatiles are played with every single day. I might notice it because there are more kids and they have special needs so they are rougher, but I have found the magnatiles to be sturdier/not break rather than the knockoffs.
Other toys the kids constantly gravitate to: play-doh (and all sensory materials), squigs, wood blocks, doctor kit, cars (and road rug), trains, dollhouses, little figurines from their favorite shows (pj masks and paw patrol right now).
Came here to mention these. Both 2yo and 6yo love them.
Lego. And Lego. Third: Lego. Then 2-3 stuffed animals and a few wooden things (a bendable snake, some vehicles and some mittlerweile animals). Everything else are dust catchers.
Same here. 5 yo. Lego everything. He still builds with his duplo blocks too. We also have cardboard bricks and he builds houses for his dinosaurs. That consumes 80% of his play.
For the record, we are not a toy heavy family. He gets about 2-3 things for Christmas and bday. And we clean out toys 2x a year. He really doesn't have many options.
My almost 12 yo still has and plays with the some of the same Legos that he had when he was 4. They’re a great investment.
My 3.5 year old's favorite lego game is to top the lego out and walk away ��
Have a 2yo so her attention span is almost non-existent. But we’ve found that rotating works amazingly well. She gets excited when we bring out a toy that we’ve put away for a while, almost like “hey, I forgot about that! This is so cool!”
We love rotating our toys. Most stay in the closet at any given time, but we have a 4 cubby Ikea shelf, with one toy in each section (the doll bucket, the magna tile bucket, a lego set, and the paw patrol bucket right now). They also have a play kitchen and art station available at all times, I rotate the art supplies.
Old toys are new again when they come out of the closet. It also let me establish a good clean up routine. It’s not overwhelming to pick up the room together at the end of the day when there are only 4 buckets of crap.
Best thing I ever bought my kids was a trampoline. From 3 right through high school they used it constantly.
My kids are 5, 4 almost 3. All three play with magnetic tiles, Legos, blocks, wooden train tracks (if we, or a babysitter, does it with them), squirt guns, balls, hot wheels, and puppets (if we participate with them).
The 4yo will play with marvel action figures and accessories for a few hours every day. He loves backpacks and superhero capes too.
Hey
I am currently searching for a 18 month old for toys, plays and DIY. I find it very hard to find suitable things - sometimes we do puzzles for the age 3+ on the other hand he doesn't get simple games for 18 months.
What are the things you love(d) most for toddlers?
Duplo started being something she enjoyed around 18 months. Those wooden fruit and vegetables that have Velcro in them so you can ‘cut’ them into pieces. Shape sorting toys.
Magnetic tiles. Our most played with toy even now my oldest is 5
Seconding this. My 20 month old also loves magnetic blocks. He loves to stack them and they stay in place bc of the magnets.
Laundry basket 🫤 or empty diaper box.
You aren't talking about my 18 month old dragging multiple laundry baskets with little people and socks all around my house are you?
Be prepared, this is something my kid never grew out of. She at 4 still drags a laundry basket or large shopping bag around full of random toys, but now she really fills them!
Little people farm/barn, magnetic tiles, legos and mega blocks, crayola no mess markers, simple wooden peg Melissa & Doug puzzles, shape sorting toys, anything that makes music (toy piano, xylophone, maracas, etc). We’ve also started getting play kits from Early Nest and Lovery and they’ve both been really good.
Yess! And little kitchens with all the fake food! Plastic or nylon spatulas and old cooking utensils. Plastic plates, omg. Even boys will keep themselves busy for an hour in their kitchen. (Everything quickly became “I microwave it!” Lol, adorable!)
Also, a shopping cart or stroller! Ummm, anyone have the Target cart?? Looks awesome! They can use them in the driveway or yard to collect their dirt & stones, too. Or take their stuffed animals & dolls out to enjoy the fresh air & play!
They love dramatic play! Doing exactly what they see Mommy & Daddy do. 😃🙌
Yes! My daughter uses the car walker thing from radio flyer to haul her stuff back and forth across the house with!! 😂 I think they all pretty much love anything that they can put stuff in and push around 🤷🏻♀️ I haven’t seen the target cart, but I imagine it would get a lot of use!!!
Tupperware
I keep getting negative comments from parents who I've tried to help. They all wanted an educational toy for their kid. We have a lot of Fisher Price toys but the kid is like 4 and these toys are usually meant for younger kids. I direct them to our science kits, but the parents argue that it is not a toy and would make a mess. I recommend a Leap Pad but every parent now does not want to put their kid to a screen.
There is nothing at that point. The parents always have extremely high expectations for educational toys for kids over the age of 2.
There was even parents that wanted to get their kid a board game to learn things. No game that I can find is educational. It's all trivia and you need to learn outside the game to do well.
'oh (maam / sir) you don't have to buy a game. Just use a couple of these at home. Fun for you and fun for them. First there is the 'quiet' game where the child that keeps silent the longest without fidgeting gets a treat. Then there is 52 card pickup where you fling a deck of cards across the room. Again when 52 in total are picked up they get a treat. But a personal favorite of mine is 'dodge car' where your kid tries to get across a busy road without becoming road kill. It's kind of like frogger but in real life'
Won't make you popular BUT the reactions would be great.
I know legos, play-dough and Lincoln logs, I'm hoping to find some hidden gems!
It's not a toy so much as what you show interest in. Kids are after a parent's time more than anything.
1 of my kids like playing with an old computer (I repair old computers), Another tinkers with cars, another builds models. My hobbies when I am at home.
If I go to a store to buy a toy, I pick one that I play with absently for more than 2 minutes. Theory is, if the toy keeps my interest, the toy keep my kids interest too... And stupidly, it works.
Seriously, this. I just pulled out a big box to put away the Christmas decorations and my 2yo son came running over "ohhhh a big box!" It never gets old.
Same here! She made a turtle costume, a car and various tablets and computers this weekend... the difficult part is getting rid of all that after a while without her noticing...
Age is an important factor here.
Masking tape - make a "car track" all over the house. Time consuming fun, and easy clean-up!
I too am confused at all these kids playing for hours by themselves!
I too am confused at all these kids playing for hours by themselves!
Throw in some markers and you got half a day filled
Stickers and cardboard gives us an easy hour.
What age ?
I have a 2.5 year old, so no toy keeps her occupied for hours, rather 30-40 mins. Some good ones:
Sadly the only thing that will go for hours is iPad games and TV , if you’re desperate to get some time for other things.
When you say books, this is you reading to her?
Most of the time, yeah. Occasionally, she will pick off something from her bookcase and browse the pictures by herself.
To expand on this, the recycling. Everything but the things they could get hurt on like glass or cans. They pull things out, build whatever, and at the end of the weekend, out it goes to the recycling bin. It helps to have craft supplies like markers and tape.
Best educational toys for kids
Key Considerations for Choosing Educational Toys:
Age Appropriateness: Ensure the toy is suitable for your child's age group. Toys should match their developmental stage to promote engagement and learning.
Skill Development: Look for toys that encourage skills such as problem-solving, critical thinking, creativity, and fine motor skills.
STEM Focus: Consider toys that promote Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM) learning. Building sets, coding games, and science kits are great options.
Open-Ended Play: Choose toys that allow for imaginative play and creativity, such as building blocks, art supplies, and role-playing sets.
Durability and Safety: Ensure that the toys are made from safe, non-toxic materials and are durable enough to withstand regular use.
Recommended Educational Toys:
LEGO Classic Building Set: Encourages creativity and fine motor skills through building and construction.
Osmo Genius Starter Kit: Combines physical play with digital learning, focusing on math, spelling, and problem-solving.
Melissa & Doug Wooden Puzzles: Great for developing fine motor skills and hand-eye coordination while introducing shapes and colors.
Snap Circuits Jr. Electronics Exploration Kit: Teaches basic electronics concepts through hands-on projects.
Kano Computer Kit: Introduces kids to coding and computer science by allowing them to build their own computer.
Takeaway: Choose toys that not only entertain but also educate, fostering a love for learning and exploration in your child.
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