Omg okay so im a big girl like 6'1 and a size 24/26 3x usually. We go to a monthly drag show and they do themes so we dress up and its getting more and more elaborate so now I'm getting in to corsets. I was having a really hard time but I came across this site called spicylingerie.com and it sounds sketch but they have a massive steel bones corest selection for plus size people. I ordered a basic black over bust corset and it was genuinely such good quality. I actually got it in a size too big!!!

I'll try and attach the busted photo i took at the end of the night of what my waist looked like with the corset on cause mama i wasn't gonna not get a pic lmao I just placed my second order with them for a sincher for the next show!

One thing I would 100% recommend is get all steel boning and hardware. Cheep hardware will make it harder to get on well and will wear out faster and us big girls need the strength of the steel boning to support us well

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I’m just commenting cause I would also like to know!

You could check out miraclesuit! I know their plus size shapewear goes up to 4X and it’s actually super sculpting and flattering, but still comfy enough to wear daily. Good luck!

Cacique full body shaper from Lane Bryant! Swear by it!

I finally pulled the trigger on Honeylove for my wedding and I love it so much! Much better quality and support than the more budget friendly (but still decent) Shapermint I had before. The Honeylove shaper short I bought also has (very comfortable) boning that prevents them from rolling down which I always had an issue with with other brands.

I don't have recommendations on shapewear but I think that tucking your shirt in will actually give you some of the shape you're looking for

Shapellx!

I used to wear shape wear often and it was always honey love. Very comfortable (for shape wear) and I found it really gave a nice hourglass look.

I really like the brand Shapermint, and they're having crazy great sales this weekend.

I use HEYSHAPE for like 2 years

Honestly I'd wear a trapeze dress instead. Trapeze, fit and flare, or something else that lightly drapes over the lower torso. Do you really want to squeeze your swelling in shape wear? That sounds uncomfortable.

Honeylove is my go-to. Not cheap but high quality. Good luck to you!

Amazon

Maybe thigh society shorts? A little compression + no chub rub!

Agree that you 100% don’t need it though.

You don't need any kind of shape wear. The right guy will NOT care about your tummy. Trust me, it never stopped me from talking to a woman.

There is no such thing as a "PCOS body" any body can have PCOS. For example I have PCOS as well but I most definitely have a large butt and thighs lol.Try branching out into fashion advice subs and consider posting with a faceless photo or measurements so they can help effectively.

I love maidenform’s shapewear. Try on in store. Buy online.

I was given Shapewear from Confident & Bold Clothing Co for my birthday. I have been wearing it for around 4 months now, and I absolutely LOVE it!!! It's unlike any of the other pairs I have tried, it is comfortable, you can't notice it, it keeps everything where it needs to be, and overall I really have no complaints for it, easily a 5 star product. I Definitely Recommend It. Here's the website if you want to check it out. https://confidentboldclothing.com

I’ve used Spanx for years. It’s a nightmare to put on but it does a nice job.

Shapermint has some good options. I have a couple pair of their biker short length, and love them for under dresses. They are quite snug, hold everything in place, and smooth everything out.

Not yet, I'm also looking for a one which is good and comfortable and suit shapewear.

size is important but is it elastic also very critical to me, otherwise, it's too tight to breathe.

Do you have a good option now?

I’ve tried a bunch of brands before but the only ones that actually stay in place and feel comfy enough to wear all day are miraclesuit. I’ve been using them for a year now and the quality’s solid.

I have an apple shape and don’t have a need for smoothing in the hips/thighs, but I like something that smooths out my tummy and back. What works for me are Honeylove’s tops. I’ve worn this type as a bra almost exclusively for 15 years. Honeylove is by far the best I have found.

I get Shapermint's camis off Amazon and wear one almost daily. They give a light smoothing and just enough compression without being uncomfortable.

Spanx. I recently bought some after not purchasing them for 10 years. The past ones did the job, but my word were they uncomfortable after a few hours. The new ones I bought were so comfortable. They were lightweight and breathable but still smoothed everything out and pulled my tummy in.

Here you go!

If you're looking for cheap as chips, there's a bodysuit in Pennys that i wear a lot, and i find it does the job great, is comfortable and washes really well (kudos to PP who handwashes her shapewear, i'd never manage that :D). I lengthen the straps and wear it kind of tucked under my bra. https://www.primark.com/en-ie/p/seamless-scoop-neck-shapewear-bodysuit-taupe-991108201606

Spanx, skims or atir are the only ones worth trying. Honestly I've some of the same pieces fro. Spanx for nearly 20 years and they still work as good as they day I got them. Do no and I mean do not buy vacious. Overpriced influencer tat that is the same quality as shein

I wear shapewear every day (I’ve lost 75kg so lots of loose skin) and have tried lots of different brands and styles and these ones from Shein are my favourite: http://api-shein.shein.com/h5/sharejump/appjump?link=lev8VvsGDiF_8&localcountry=IE&url_from=GM71044337235

I have about 6 pairs in nude and black on constant rotation and they wash very well. I would really recommend the ones with the hooks and eyes in the crotch rather than snaps and the ones that go under the bra than over.

Skims are excellent and really, really comfortable.

Vacious is a fab Irish brand. Great quality that lasts (make sure to handwash). I'm currently on my 3rd holiday in their swimsuits.

The everday vest or shorts might suit what you are looking for.

I loveeeee the brand honey love. They’re a bit pricey but I think they are so worth it

What’s ur secret

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Skims truly are amazing and worth the $$$. Or the OG Spanks.