I also use micellar water to remove mascara but I'll "soak" my lashes with the cotton pad for about 10 seconds and then and rub them ever so slightly. Repeat until all the mascara is gone.

Use oil, put it on a pad and place it on your lashes and wiggle it around gently and leave it for a bit, with an oil you can also use your fingers I’ve found that to be far more gentle, just gently rub your eyes and it should be good to come off. Any oil tbh, I use olive

Double cleansing, using a oil cleanser first and then your regular cleanser, should work. Use the oil cleanser on your whole (dry) face, massaging it into your skin and eye makeup. Then add some water, massaging it again, before rinsing it off. Then proceed with your normal cleanser. The oil breaks down your makeup and mascara, and anything left after rinsing is loose enough for your cleanser to easily wash away. If you’re using waterproof mascara (which is not recommended for everyday btw) I would recommend soaking a cotton pad with micellar water and soaking the lashes for 30 seconds before double cleansing. Same goes for heavy makeup (glitter, Halloween makeup, etc). Take your time and don’t rush the removal.

Also, remember that eyelashes are hair. Just like you lose some hairs during the day, it’s normal for lashes to loosen and fall out. As long as you’re not getting thin spots or more than one or two, you should be ok.

Wear tubing mascara. Among its many other benefits, it just… comes off at the end of the day. No smudges ever. I use Heimish Dailism Smudge Stop mascara but any tubing mascara will be dead simple to remove.

I use Cleansing balm, an oil based cleaner first, as my makeup remover, and then use a face wash.

You your loosing eyelashes, the cotton round is too aggressive and micellar not effective enough.

If this doesn't help, then start looking at your mascara, and perhaps it's time to try a different type.

And although I find it's not as buildable, tubing mascara is a great option on occasion, as it washes away with just water, and doesn't smear or smudge.

Micellar water, also dont use water proof mascara

Oil cleanser will literally dissolve the mascara

Tubing mascara. Warm water gently sweeps the mascara off your lashes.

I use a tubing mascara. It doesn't smudge during the day and I just need to saturate it with warm water and rub gently to remove it. 

Works great with a make up eraser towel!

Jojoba/coconut oil. Take a good amount and rub it in, and then wipe it all off with a warm wet washcloth.

I use waterproof products so it’s a pain to take off since it hardens, but oil does the trick every time. Removes everything but is gentle enough to keep everything intact. Should work even more easily with products that aren’t waterproof since they’re easier to remove anyway.

[Edit: I see a lot of people recommending makeup remover, and I honestly have to disagree with that. Not only can that get expensive along with running out quickly, but most makeup removers in my experience have been nowhere as effective or gentle and I end up still losing lashes—along with my skin either being dried out or irritated/itchy from whatever ingredients are in there. Oil will last you longer, absorb the product, and be a lot nicer to your skin/lashes in my experience.]

Mostly it’s just time. I cut a cotton round in half and wet both halves with micellar water and hold them up over my eyes and I wait. Don’t rub or you’ll irritate the skin and pull out the lashes. Give it time to dissolve the mascara/liner.

I use coconut oil & it works well for me

The easiest thing to do is buy a cleansing balm! I love my heimish cleansing balm, it’s $15 on Amazon I think and lasts me forever. I just use a small amount and it takes everything off, and I use very waterproof mascara and eyeliner. Liquid lipstick slides right off too it’s amazing. I used oil to remove my eye makeup before but honestly it feels gross to me and I still had to like scrub it off bc my mascara is very tough and stays. But cleansing balm is perfect for makeup removal so I highly recommend it.

Grab any makeup removing wipes and makeup remover fluid. I use Clinique brand for both because they work very well and Ulta has them half off several times per year. Open the wipes and dump a couple glugs of the fluid in there. Mash the wipes around to ensure the fluid is evenly incorporated. When you remove your mascara, take a wipe and press it to your eyes. Hold it there for a minute to soften stuff up. Then gently wipe it away! Super easy!

Try a tubing mascara. I use the one from Thrive and the little tubes slide right off with just warm water on a facecloth or paper towel. I love that stuff.

If You don’t have cleansing bonds or oils around, coconut oil just on the eyelashes is a great alternative

Try oil makeup remover or balm, it’s a lot more gentle

Team Cleansing balms. No matter which brand and how (in)expensive, they are great at their job. Elf, Clinique, Charlotte Tilbury, Lisa Eldridge, Geek and Gorgeous.. there are nice options for everyone

Micellar water is rubbish, it literally does nothing. You need an oil based cleaner.

I use Vaseline to remove mascara and stay-put lipstick, and for everything else I use Johnson’s Top-to-Toe baby wash.

Even if you look in your panty and use whatever oil you find there to remove your mascara, it will do a better job than Micellar Water, which I think is a big con.

Put the remover on a cotton pad and hold the cotton pad firmly against your eye without rubbing it or moving it. Hold it against the eye like that for at least 30 seconds before you try to rub the mascara off. You have to give the remover time to dissolve the mascara before you wipe it off.

Try heroine make speedy mascara remover. Doesn't require rubbing against Ur lash to remove it. Just apply using the remover wand and wait for 30sec. Easy and hassle free

If you're only losing 2-3 eyelashes every time that's probably just a normal amount. You want to lose those lashes because they're already loose, and if you don't pull them out when you're removing your makeup than they just fall off throughout the day and possibly go into your eye.

I think this is completely normal and you're overthinking it. I use makeup wipes and tend to lose maybe 1 or 2, but it's never noticable.

What about makeup removing balms? Thats the one thing I don't see mentioned in your post so just incase-
Like the It cosmetics ByeBye balm, theres tons of other options out there I just use this as an example.

Also I find that when I use a mascara primer that it removes easier, but I do use a tubing mascara so it's already easy to remove.

You don't need to be concerned about losing a couple of eyelashes - they are hairs like anywhere else on your body and they fall out periodically.

You could try using the cleansing oil directly on your skin without a cotton pad? It might be more gentle and effective to do that.

Try wetting the cotton pad first, all the way, with cool water. Then add a splash of the remover (instead of using remover dabbed with a little hot water)

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I use the Heroine Make Mascara Remover on top of my oil cleanser + face wash. It works every time esp for stubborn mascaras.

I switched to a tubing mascara and it’s easier to remove than what I’d been using (L’Oréal) since it just needs a little soak and then the fibery bits just slide off basically

Neutrogena oil free eye makeup remover (the blue bottle you shake). It’s the only thing that removes everything and doesn’t sting my eyes

DRENCH a cotton round in miceler water. Hold to your eye and WAIT. Gently rub and it’ll slide right off!

For tubing mascara you should only need water to remove it. I like to gentle splash my lashes a few times and then gently rub the tubes away. Then after that, go in with your your facial cleanser and gently scrub your eyes and see if that helps.

How do you use cleansing oil? You’re supposed to massage it for a time and use bit of water to emulsify the oil. This method works well with me and I only use waterproof mascara for my stubborn straight lashes.

That’s odd. All my tubing mascaras literally slide right off with water. I hope you find a solution.

How often are you getting the styes? I was having this issue recently so I stopped wearing mascara completely and the styes have stopped. Honestly I don’t think it’s the makeup that’s being left behind, I think it’s all the mascara. Makeup companies keep changing their formulas to keep up with the “clean beauty” standards so they have taken all of the parabens out which are preservatives that keep the makeup from growing bacteria. Just my theory though.

Here are the 2 methods that worked for me (do not have to be done together):

1. Oil cleansing balm. Massage it into your lashes with your eyes closed (no water). Then look up and really get your lower lashes. After most of the mascara is removed, add a little bit of water to your hands and go over the area again to emulsify the oil. Rinse & you’re done.

2. Micellar water + waterproof mascara. It HAS to be one formulated for waterproof mascara specifically). Wet a cotton pad (bonus points for reusable ones) and press gently to your closed eye for 10-15 seconds. Then start wiping the mascara off your lashes with the pad. Repeat for lower lash line. Rinse.

Cleansing balm may be the more gentler option if you have sensitive skin.

Hope this helps!

I use washable/reusable makeup remover pads (mine are true earth brand) and micellar water. I wet the pad, then lightly press on my lashes a few seconds before wiping downward. I then pick a clean edge and run it unfree my lower lashes. Then, I do the rest of my face wash routine and moisturize as usual. If I use disposable makeup wipes my eyes burn and are blurry, and water just doesn’t get all my Bad Gal Bang mascara off.

I use eye makeup remover. I can use Lancome or the grocery store brand. I use either flat disposable cotton pieces or my reusable cloth ones. No problems...

Another vote for micellar water; I like Bioderma. But I use Olay unscented cleansing wipes first. I close my eyes and hold the wipe in place for a minute or so. It dissolves every mascara in my arsenal, even my OG HG Bad Gal Bang. I’ll then swipe with micellar water as a final cleansing step. The wipes are a bit pricey for everyday use, but the trade-offs of no blurry vision and no stinging eyes are worth it to me.