TL;DR To romance Abigail, increase her friendship level by giving her loved gifts such as Amethyst, Pumpkin, and Magic Rock Candy. Once you reach 8 hearts, buy a bouquet from Pierre's shop to start dating her.
Gift Preferences
Abigail has specific gifts that she loves, which can help increase her heart level quickly. Some of her favorite items include Amethyst, Golden Pumpkins, Pearls, and Magic Rock Candy [5:1]
[5:2]. Giving these gifts will significantly boost your friendship points with her, making it easier to reach the necessary heart levels for romance.
Heart Levels and Bouquets
To initiate a romantic relationship with Abigail, you need to increase her heart level to at least 8 hearts. After reaching this level, you can purchase a bouquet from Pierre's shop to signify your intention to date her [4:2]. Note that you may need to wait until the day after reaching 8 hearts, unless it's a Wednesday when Pierre's shop is closed
[4:2].
House Upgrade Requirement
In multiplayer mode, there might be additional requirements for marriage, such as needing a house expansion that includes a kitchen [4:1]. Ensure that both your cabin and the main house are upgraded to proceed with the relationship.
Romantic Interactions
Once you start dating Abigail, you'll notice her shy and quirky personality shining through her dialogues. She often tries to compliment you but ends up awkwardly mentioning your boots instead [3:2]. This endearing behavior is part of what makes her a popular choice among players.
Multiplayer Considerations
If you're playing in multiplayer mode, ensure that any potential bugs or issues are addressed, especially if you find yourself unable to progress despite meeting all requirements [4:3]. It's also worth noting that none of the romances in Stardew Valley are gender-restricted, so any character labeled as "single" can be romanced by any player
[1:2].
This is my first tike playing the game and i've started as a girl and now i want to marry Abigail, is this possible?
Yes! None of the romances are gender-restricted, any character with the “bachelor” or “bachelorette” label can be married by any farmer.
(Abby is one of my favorites to marry, have fun!)
This is awesome!!! I want to marry her cause she gives me the best vibes (shes also a little bit weirdo and thats amazing lol)
You can marry Abigail, Alex, Elliot, Emily, Haley, Harvey, Leah, Maru, Penny, Sam, Sebastian, and Shane. Lots of choices!
I only have eyes for Abigail...
Friend... You'll be a great farmer. I know it.
She's a... gem... a shiny purple gem...
Don’t we all.
She’s a good choice!
No, you can't. (Shes married to me)
Oh noooo i will have to marry other ones now? That's sad...
Thx
if you look in your friendship tab, you will see that some characters have a "(single)" under their names. those are the characters you can romance/marry. i see that you only have eyes for Abigail, but just so you know for the future, this is how you can tell :)
I've been playing stardew with my bf for a few months now. I started playing years ago and introduced him to the game. Despite me dropping hints (casually giving him my prismatic shard and iridium bars if you catch my drift) he's taken an interest in Abigail. Naturally, I am absolutely devistated and am out for some sweet sweet revenge.
He wants to play games? Fine. Can't marry her if I marry her first. Good luck bb boi xx
Lmaooooo the passive aggressiveness is real 🤣 that’s definitely one way to make his game challenging I can’t wait to hear what happens after he finds out he can’t marry her but how come you didn’t tell him the game has the option to marry farm players? Could’ve dropped an obvious hint like “hey did you know there’s an item you can only get in stardew with multiplayer mode” and then tell him about the ring and how to use it lmao
Oh he definitely knows about it. He saw it in his crafting menu and asked me what it was for a while back. Can't feign ignorance now 😂
The nerve! Guess he’s met his match now 🤣 please let me know how it goes when you’ve married Abigail!
wow, I feel this. my boyfriend did the same to me, also with Abigail no less. spite is a wonderful motivator 😂 godspeed.
Marry an NPC each get two slaves I mean spouses
Tbf she'll probably appreciate and consume rocks better
Update: her birthday is in 2 days and I have gone through every chest on the farm and taken all of her loved gifts that we have.
Abigail will be mine
I like how after you start dating Abigail she's a bit shy and tries to compliment you but gets embarrased it's co cute <3
She really is so cute. I love her other dialogue where she tries to flirt with you but gets shy again and ends up awkwardly complimenting your boots instead lmao. Love that sweet, awkward purple girl.
I really wish you could invite villagers to spend time with you. I could see fishing, dungeon crawling, spending time at the spa being things different villagers appreciate.
She's the best 🥹
amethyst
She’s my wife in my current play through, I freaking love her and her quirkiness 🥰
I got her hearts to full besides the two grayed out. But Pierre won't give me the go ahead to buy the flowers. Does the main farmer have to unlock it first?
You unlock the bouquet the day after you reach 8 hearts, unless that’s a Wednesday, in which case it’ll be unlocked the day after.
Sadly I got through all 8 hearts a season ago but nothing has happened yet. Its the multiplayer on ps4 which is new so it might just be a bug
did you buy the expansion for the house you might not be able to proceed with your relationship until you have the expanded house. There's something about needing a kitchen.
Yeah i did upgrade my "cabin" and the actual house is upgraded too.
Grab the glock
Genuinely the only gift item I can remember off the top of my head.
She also loves Golden Pumpkins, Pearls and Magic Rock Candy.
Everyone loves golden pumpkin. I think she loves regular ones
Well good thing I have 10 blobfish Ponds
Purple stone for purple hair, easy peasy.
Omg can u imagine throwing that over your shoulder at the bridesmaids tho
tosses it backwards
“wait that’s not a bou-“ crack
Haha! Haley has fallen perfectly into my trap!
Lmao instead she would just turn around and lob it at Caroline.
We went from zero to ten hearts, real quick!
Was that a typo or are we Bumblebee Cucumberlatching Sebastian?
Romantic AND delicious
There are a lot of lines in the game that suggest Sebastian has feelings for Abigail, but I didn't pay that much attention to it because I thought it was just a one-sided thing where Sebastian is pining for Abigail. However, I just discovered that if you get low hearts with Abigail while you're married to her, she will say, "I wonder if I could've done better... I was very good friends with Sebastian before we met. He was probably the one," which suggests that she did actually like him back. I feel a little guilty about tearing them apart by pursuing either one of them. Does anyone else feel like this? Looking at Sebastian in my farm kitchen makes me sad now. I stole him from his would-be soulmate.
I don't honestly think Abigail and Sebastian are a very good match besides being the two "alternative" people in town. They have very different lifestyles and interests, and I don't think the lack of respect for Sebastian's time and boundaries that you see with Abigail in his 2 heart event speaks to a friendship that would develop into a very healthy relationship in the long run. I can still understand where a crush or attraction might come from; they're both attractive, friends, and probably have more in common than most people in town despite their differences. But it wouldn't surprise me to see real people grow out of that kind of feeling when someone more compatible came along, either.
As to Abigail's low heart comment after marriage, that feels more like the classic "what ifs" that often accompany the breakdown of a romantic relationship. Was this really the right choice? Could I have done better? Did I miss something along the way that would've made me happier? What about my Ex; maybe we gave up too soon. When doubt and heartbreak set in, people often start to wonder about past flames and missed opportunities. It doesn't mean that person or situation was actually "right" for them either. It just means they're unhappy.
I really love this comment. You're right. In the long run, their incompatibilities may become a source of conflict that will sour any relationship that will blossom between them. Your explanation for why Abigail said what she said at low hearts is also great. I never really considered that she may have just said that as a "in the heat of the argument" type of thing. All this time, I've been devastated thinking I got in the way of a should-have-been slow burn story between two friends who clearly like each other. Thank you for this comment. I feel less guilty now that I chose to marry Sebastian.
To me it feels like the differences between Abigail and Sebastian are also reflective of a possible age difference. Seb seems older, he knows his work is important and coders typically like not being interrupted while they’re working because it takes them out of their groove. Abigail seems like she’s still going through a lot of ‘I’m a newly independent adult’ in interactions with her family but she still is a teenager and living in her parents house. To me it seems like Seb is 25 and has his life in order, and Abigail is 18 and is figuring it out. Are they a great fit? Maybe yes maybe no, but it definitely seems like their personality conflicts are reflective of what challenges they’re facing at their respective ages.
Not really, in the case of Abigail who was the first person I romanced, it seems that her and Sebastian wouldn't really mesh well, Abigail at least has a somewhat outgoing personality, as when she loves to explore the farm before you moved in, and the mines north of town. Where as Sebastian stays inside his room 98% of the time and only leaves when he goes to smoke a cigarette close to his house. Only other time I've ever seen him outside the house Is the one night a week at the saloon when most people are there.
It’s a bit of a weird one, because I’ve heard if you marry Maru she makes comments about Seb having feelings for Abigail, yet when you start to befriend him he seems to be a bit frustrated at her lack of regard for his job/time etc. But then when you befriend Sam he says that Seb insisted on having her in the band so idk. And when you marry Sebastian he neeeever mentions her but mentions Sam a lot.
Also in my game Seb said that me and Sam were his only friends. He didn’t mention Abigail so it seems he doesn’t even consider her a friend?
I like to think that Sebastian just values his working hours a lot, so regardless of who he likes, he gets irritated if anyone tries to bother him when he's working. It's the same case for Sam during his 2 heart event, right? Sam sent him a text message asking to hang out but Sebastian firmly said no because he was busy. As for him never mentioning Abigail but frequently mentioning Sam when he's married, I think it's because he's closer to Sam than he is to Abigail, and he lost his feelings for Abigail when he started dating you. Out of courtesy, anyone would refrain from talking about their past crush in front of their partner, right?
I think one of the lines that makes my heart hurt a little is Sebastian's response when you try to ask him to dance with you during Flower Dance if you have low hearts with him. He's the only dateable NPC that flat out says he prefers to dance with someone else. If you don't dance with him, he will always choose to dance with Abigail.` His rejection line is the only time he's ever shown interest in participating in Flower Dance. When you're married and you ask him to dance with you, he just grumbles and whines about it. It makes me sad. He shows more interest in dancing with Abigail than you.
I’d never even thought about the flower dance dialogue before! Just reading both of Abigail and Sebastian’s quotes from that event only, it really seems like the crush is mostly one sided on Sebastian’s part.
This actually turned me off the playthrough where I married Sam. His initial line is that he admits he likes flowers, so I expected him to just go with it. Instead he whines about the dorky suit and says he didn't expect to still do the dumb dance after marriage. Literally abandoned the playthrough because I didn't want to divorce him.
Is Abigail their beard?
They hang out during one of the festivals-- I think maybe it was the Night Market or the Luau? One of the beach ones-- and if you talk to her about it after marriage she tells you she's just catching up with some old friends. Also in her 8-heart event with certain dialogue options Vincent implies they went climbing trees together.
Personally I like to think they were good friends when they were younger but have sort of drifted apart as Sam spent more time with Seb and Abigail. Other people on this sub sometimes suggest that she's cheating... but ConcernedApe has shot down that hypothesis and I don't like it either.
I feel the same way about Sam and Penny. Marrying Alex or Haley only makes me feel a little guilty. I’m fine w everyone else. Demetrius wants Maru to marry Harvey but that’s just him. Once you get enough hearts with Leah, Elliott stops coming to the saloon which is kind of sad though.
Olá, pessoal! 😊 Esse é o meu site sobre dicas de jogos, estou começando agora e ainda aprendendo bastante nesse processo.
Comecei a escrever sobre Stardew Valley, e o meu primeiro artigo é sobre a personagem Abigail. O conteúdo foi baseado na wiki oficial do jogo, mas com uma linguagem mais leve e acessível.
Se puderem dar uma olhada e me contar o que acharam, ficaria muito grato(a)! Toda sugestão de melhoria é bem-vinda para que eu possa evoluir e trazer conteúdos cada vez melhores.
Obrigado pelo apoio! 🎮💜
🔹 Link: https://gamewiki.pro/abigail-stardew-valley-guia-completo/
Muito legal, s ó precisa corrigir isso aqui, ela não ama quartzo (so gosta)
Vlle irmão, vou corrigir!
Eu acabei de ler seu site, achei muito bom e uma graça. Acrescento q vc poderia colocar print dos eventos de corações para dar mais informação também.
Queria muito fazer isso, até pensei, o que dificultou foi ter os prints!
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Hello everyone! It’s my first time posting here. I just started playing Stardew Valley late last year, and was immediately hooked. I’m currently in my 5th year on the farm. I just wanted to share this illustration I did with you all. 🤗
I really enjoy this community and reading everyone’s posts. You all have gotten me out of some very confusing moments, particularly with the mermaids. 😂
Thanks for looking❣️
This Abigail looks like she was raised in a good household without peehair
😂
Lol, I agree. I love her, she's always been my personal favorite. Every game, I always look for amethyst and quartz and grow pumpkins just for her. 💜
Abigail Is really great. I've romanced Maru and married Hailey, but Abigail is definitely a good choice. She's so sweet.
Hello fellow farmers, does anyone know if joining Joja Mart influences or completely shuts down the possibility to marry Abigail?
Thank you in advance!
I don’t think joining Joja affects relationships... but why would you ever join Joja?
I want to get the 100% on Steam and one of the achievements comes from joining Joja, I don't like the idea either trust me
Nothing changes when you go the Joja route except for the community center. Nobody holds it against you or even comments about it.
Great, thanks!
no, it only destroys your soul
I am going Joja
Respectfully, perish.
How to romance Abigail in Stardew Valley
Here are some key steps to successfully romance Abigail in Stardew Valley:
Gifts: Abigail loves specific items. Focus on giving her gifts that she enjoys:
Aim to give her two gifts per week, and you can give her a birthday gift on the 13th of Fall for extra friendship points.
Friendship Points: Build your friendship by talking to her daily. Completing quests and attending festivals together can also increase your friendship level.
Heart Events: Once you reach a certain friendship level, you’ll unlock heart events. Make sure to trigger these events by having enough friendship points:
Confession: Once you reach 10 hearts, you can propose to Abigail. Make sure you have a Mermaid's Pendant, which can be purchased from the Old Mariner on rainy days.
Marriage: After proposing, you can marry Abigail. She will move into your farmhouse and provide various benefits, including cooking meals and helping with farm tasks.
Tip: Keep track of her favorite gifts and make a point to give them regularly. This will speed up the romance process significantly! Enjoy your time in Stardew Valley!
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