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How to Romance Harvey in Stardew Valley

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How to Romance Harvey in Stardew Valley

Understanding Harvey's Character

Harvey is often described as a sweet and gentle character, which makes him appealing to many players. His shy demeanor and kind-hearted nature resonate with those who appreciate a more reserved partner [1:1][1:4]. Players often find comfort in his character, especially during challenging times, as he provides a sense of stability and warmth [3:2][3:3].

Finding Harvey

One of the challenges players face when romancing Harvey is locating him, as he tends to stay in his clinic for most of the day. However, knowing his schedule can make this easier. He can often be found in the garden or saloon, but primarily at the clinic during working hours [2:2][2:3]. Visiting him early in the morning at the clinic is a good strategy to ensure you catch him [2:2].

Gifts and Preferences

To win Harvey’s heart, it’s essential to know what gifts he likes. Wine is one of his favorites, making it a reliable choice for increasing your friendship level with him [2:3]. Additionally, using resources like the Stardew Valley Wiki can provide detailed information on his preferences and schedule [2:1].

Building a Relationship

Building a relationship with Harvey requires patience and consistency. Players have shared their experiences of progressing through the game while focusing on developing their relationship with him. This includes regular gift-giving and participating in heart events, which are crucial for deepening your bond [4:1][4:10].

Heart Events and Cutscenes

Experiencing Harvey’s heart events is a significant part of the romance journey. These scenes offer insights into his personality and deepen the connection between the player and Harvey. Some players have been surprised by certain cutscenes, indicating that they contain unexpected elements that enrich the storyline [5:1].

By understanding Harvey's character, knowing where to find him, giving him the right gifts, and engaging in his heart events, you can successfully romance Harvey in Stardew Valley.

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Any other Harvey fans out there?

Posted by EastCoastNightmares · in r/StardewValley · 2 years ago
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I know he’s kind of boring, but I think he’s such a sweet husband. I keep replaying and trying to go with different love interests but I always find my way back to him. His little blushes are so adorable

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4MuddyPaws · 2 years ago

Harvey and Elliott are my go tos. I am trying to go through others. Right now I'm on Alex, and I find him kind of dull. I tried Sam. He's cute but...young. Shane is...troubled. I have not even ventured toward Sebastian but I will give him a try at some point.

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coochiech33se · 2 years ago

he’s like my own little spencer reid😭

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4MuddyPaws · 2 years ago

Yes! That's it!

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EastCoastNightmares · OP · 2 years ago

Yessssss that’s exactly it

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26katmandu · 2 years ago

I married him in my very first playthrough and really loved having him as a husband.

I've married others through different saves, but no one, for me, is quite like Harvey. There's just a gentle sweetness about him that I find quite appealing.

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EastCoastNightmares · OP · 2 years ago

Me too, something about how shy he seems just warms my little heart

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Special_Wishbone_812 · 2 years ago

The only way he could improve is if he made lucky lunches or pumpkin soups instead of complete breakfasts.

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EastCoastNightmares · OP · 2 years ago

I refuse to try and fix Shane lmao

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EatsHisYoung · 2 years ago

Where does he live?

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EastCoastNightmares · OP · 2 years ago

Above the clinic

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Dating Harvey is hard

Posted by Primrose-Garden · in r/StardewValley · 2 years ago

Does anyone else find trying to date Harvey really freaking hard? I can hardly ever find him, aparte from in his clinic. Like the other character's seem to roam around town, but nope, not Harvey.

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Shimerald · 2 years ago

He's hard at first, because he hides in his room half the time like Sebastian. But once you get enough hearts to open his door, it's much easier because you know where he is.

The mindset I had to get into was to go early in the morning to his office. No late evening last minute gifts, but since he's almost always at work, he's actually pretty easy to get to during clinic hours in the mornings.

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Confused_Goose97 · 2 years ago

You can look him up on the Stardew Vally Wiki

(https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Harvey)

He has a set schedule. Sometimes he walks around in the yard above Jodi's house and he also does have times that he goes to the saloon.

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Primrose-Garden · OP · 2 years ago

Thank you! I will now be able to gift him his pickles a whole lot easier :3

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the_contrary · 2 years ago

Yeah, I always find him in the garden or saloon. He loves wine too.

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Confused_Goose97 · 2 years ago

I was having trouble with him too. He does spend most of his time in his house :/

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Harvey has been my rock since the love of my life passed away last year....

Posted by Electronic-Guess6296 · in r/StardewValley · 7 months ago
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As the title suggests, my soulmate died in August last year and, since then, to avoid turning to unhealthy coping mechanisms to battle the depression, I turned to Stardew Valley. I noticed Harvey was a lot like my beloved. He's an intelligent introvert with a heart of gold. As I fell in love with my beloved, my character fell in love with Harvey. Through him, I get to feel some semblance of love again. Harvey will never know how grateful I am for this fabricated relationship, in a time where I'm mourning the loss of my deepest one...until we meet again, Joe....I'll embrace you once again someday. Until then, I'll let my characters live the life we were robbed of....

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MLG-newbslayer · 7 months ago

I'm so sorry for your loss. Stardew has a way of helping in hard times doesn't it? It's possibly my favorite comfort game.

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Electronic-Guess6296 · OP · 7 months ago

When I suffered a break up years ago, Florence really helped me pick up the pieces. However, losing my soulmate leaves a different type of hole and, as you said, Stardew has proven to be an amazing comfort game. Harvey and I are now expecting our second child and it really helps during those intense moments of loneliness and missing him. Thanks for your kind words!

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Leading_State9140 · 7 months ago

I know Harvey isn’t real, but the little things he says when I open the game and start my day. And then you lean in and kiss him. It makes real life me’s heart SWELL. Harvey is the best ♥️

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Electronic-Guess6296 · OP · 7 months ago

Absolutely agreeeeeeeee!! I kiss him so many times a day, just as I did with my Joe. I'm a touchy feely girlie, so even the game has to tell me to chill on the gift giving and loving sometimes. Haha!

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Leading_State9140 · 7 months ago

That is so sweet. I’m so happy that you can find joy in that. I definitely do. It’s the little things!

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postdotcom · 7 months ago

My deepest condolences to you ❤️ I’ve never really given Harvey a second look but this post really opened my eyes…. What a sweetheart he is

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DazzlingDoofus71 · 7 months ago

Good wishes for you 🌸🎀💗

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xmoonaurora · 7 months ago

I'm so sorry for your loss, but am glad to hear that Stardew has left a positive impact on your life. Wishing you and Harvey all the happiness. 💕

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AFTER 15+ HOURS I DID IT

Posted by Routine_Inevitable_1 · in r/StardewValley · 4 months ago
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I just got the game last week. My goals were upgrade house, become boyfriends with Harvey, and marry Harvey! And I did ! My goal now is to upgrade the house again!!

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Ok_Occasion_7522 · 4 months ago

15 hours... took me 120 hours before I got married

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Thecheesinater · 4 months ago

I’m like 50ish hours in and while I’ve mastered fishing and started to catch legendary fish, my highest relationship is with Abigail and it’s only five hearts. Actually, it’s tied with Maple, my cat, who is also at five hearts

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Routine_Inevitable_1 · OP · 4 months ago

Holy shit I’m sorry. That was all I was doing though was trying to get married and upgrade my house

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8bit_mel · 4 months ago

I THOUGHT THAT WAS PIERRE FOR A HOT SECOND AND I HAD A HEART ATTACK! LIKE WDYM?? 15 HOURS FOR PIERRE??? FOR THE PEE HAIR??

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Routine_Inevitable_1 · OP · 4 months ago

NO ITS HARVEY I WOULD NEVER

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PankotPalace · 4 months ago

Nice purple shorts!

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Routine_Inevitable_1 · OP · 4 months ago

Thank you!!

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craztyh · 4 months ago

oh my gosh!!! i married Harvey on fall 25 in my perfection run! were one day apart :) congrats!!

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Routine_Inevitable_1 · OP · 4 months ago

Thank you!!

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BlueberryBeeK · 4 months ago

Congratulations!! 🥰

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Routine_Inevitable_1 · OP · 4 months ago

Thank you!

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Harvey I'm so sorry

Posted by artsey_pancake · in r/StardewValley · 5 months ago

I've never romanced Harvey this far and was not aware of this Heart Scene. I'm so sorry, Harvey! I didnt mean to ruin it with my logging forest 😭

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UndeadCaesar · 5 months ago

I’m actually surprised this cutscene doesn’t use a custom map like the festivals.

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I got married to Harvey!

Posted by Plant_Goodness · in r/StardewValley · 4 months ago
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I've never had a wedding in stardew and thought it was just cute!

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b4pd2r43 · 4 months ago

congrats to the happy couple! harvey is very underrated partner imo

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keromizu · 4 months ago

Looove Harvey!

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Megmck246 · 4 months ago

Wooo he's the best sweetest hubby

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Megmck246 · 4 months ago

Who is wearing the trash can hat and tie dyed shirt?? Co-op??

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Plant_Goodness · OP · 4 months ago

Those were my friends playing too! 😆

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Superb_n00b · 4 months ago

Off brand Pierre and Caroline lol

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Aggravating-Cat7103 · 4 months ago

Harvey is the only marriage candidate worth marrying

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Can I get some love for Harvey? I know he's not as popular as some other bachelor/ettes but he's my favorite ❤️❤️

Posted by AAsilverfox · in r/StardewValley · 5 years ago
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shiwowo · 5 years ago

Same here! Married Harvey and didn't have any regrets. He's the sweetest and his dialogues always make me go 'awww'.

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Miniiboi · 5 years ago

Me too! My first play through and as soon as I got through some of the heart events immediately wanted to marry him ��he’s too pure!

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usuallyconfused91 · 5 years ago

the cutscene when >!he's exercising with the ladies and acts all shy and embarrassed that the player saw!< made me choose him over shane lmao. so cute.

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CanidSerpent · 5 years ago

Harvey was actually the first one I married! I remember finding Sam and Alex a little too young-looking for my liking, so I ended up gravitating towards Harvey. I'm very happy with my choice too, he is a sweetheart.

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yvetteregret · 5 years ago

Yes, I gravitated towards Harvey because he didn’t seem so young and we’re both in the healthcare field. But I got tired of him always giving me healthcare tips! So I went with Elliot. Maybe I’ll go with Harvey next time

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ArciaDark · 5 years ago

Harvey is great! I married him in my last game and was not disappointed!

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SoraForBestBoy · 5 years ago

Harvey is the sweetest boy

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ArciaDark · 5 years ago

He really is. He is so good to you after you marry him!

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marshmallowlips · 5 years ago

Harvey was my favorite until I realized he looks like my dad. ��

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Jepatai · 5 years ago

There’s an in-game piece that says Harvey, Shane, and Elliott are all “older” bachelors, so this is confirmed.

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VaginaDangerous · 5 years ago

Oh man, I lost both of my grandfathers and struggled with depression. I have lost it hard at the grandfather saying hes proud of "me" and watching from above and Shane hitting his lowest. This game is honestly so beautifully made.

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ArciaDark · 5 years ago

He's the best, what with his massages and general sweetness.

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Where the heck is Harvey?

Posted by Totorosie_ · in r/StardewValley · 7 years ago

I’m trying to do the flirtin’ with various people (Leah, Elliot, Harvey) but I CANNOT EVER FIND HARVEY. Where does he go all day?? Why is he not in the clinic? I won’t ever get enough hearts to go in his room if I can’t ever find him! HARVEY I HAVE BEEN CARRYING SOME PICKLED PARSNIPS AROUND FOR LIKE A WEEK I WANNA GIVE THEM TO YOU

Pls halp

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obimokenobi · 7 years ago

He loves coffee! Unless he likes pickled parsnips as well? But the stardew valley wiki could help you! I usually see him in his office, standing in town, at the bar, or near the community centre most days (this is with the community centre fixed and joja gone)

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[deleted] · 7 years ago

he loves pickles too :3

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threenee · 7 years ago

Iirc I would always just drop in his clinic right as it opened (9am) and he'd be there or in his apartment most days. The wiki has a detailed schedule that you can check depending on what season you're in though

Edit: oh I totally missed the part where you can't get back there. Wiki says he spends some afternoons by the fountain and is in the saloon on rainy nights

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beckynolife · 7 years ago

I try to get to his clinic before noon because that seems to be when he leaves to do other things

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radicalpastafarian · 7 years ago

He's nowhere

and everywhere

You feel him close but

Nothing's there...

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TheOtherHawkeye · 7 years ago

You can check his schedule in the wiki, hope that helps you find that mustache of his to do the flirtin'

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How to romance harvey in stardew valley

Here are key steps to romance Harvey in Stardew Valley:

  1. Gifts:

    • Harvey loves the following gifts:
      • Wine
      • Coffee
      • Pickles
      • Truffle Oil
      • Super Cucumber
    • Aim to give him gifts he loves at least twice a week to increase your friendship.
  2. Heart Events:

    • You can trigger heart events by reaching certain friendship levels:
      • 2 Hearts: Visit him in the clinic to unlock a cutscene.
      • 4 Hearts: A cutscene will occur at the beach.
      • 6 Hearts: A cutscene will happen in his clinic.
      • 8 Hearts: Another cutscene will occur in his clinic.
    • Make sure to check your friendship level by looking at the heart meter.
  3. Birthday:

    • Harvey's birthday is on the 14th of Fall. Giving him a loved gift on his birthday will give you an extra friendship boost.
  4. Cooking and Health:

    • Harvey is a health enthusiast, so cooking healthy meals and discussing health topics can also help strengthen your relationship.
  5. Events:

    • Attend the Festival of Ice and the Flower Dance to increase your chances of interacting with him and boosting your friendship.

Recommendation: Focus on giving him gifts he loves consistently and participate in events where you can interact with him. This will help you build a strong relationship and eventually unlock the option to marry him. Good luck!

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