Signs of Interest
There are several signs that might indicate your crush likes you. Common indicators include frequent eye contact, smiling often, and laughter at your jokes [1:2]
[5:1]. They may also ask personal questions or seem genuinely interested in your life
[1:2]. Additionally, if they make time for you even when they're busy, it could be a sign they like you
[1:2].
Physical Proximity and Interaction
Physical proximity can be a strong indicator of interest. If your crush finds excuses to spend time with you one-on-one or gets physically closer during conversations, it might suggest they have feelings for you [3:1]. Initiating physical affection, such as hugs, is another potential sign
[3:1].
Behavioral Changes
Behavioral changes around you can also signal attraction. For example, if they act differently compared to how they interact with others, such as being more attentive or playful, this might indicate they like you [1:3]. Some people may avoid eye contact due to nervousness, while others might stare more often
[5:1]
[5:2].
Communication Patterns
The way your crush communicates can provide clues about their feelings. Quick responses to texts or finding reasons to talk to you can be positive signs [4]. However, communication can sometimes be confusing, with mixed signals making it hard to differentiate between friendliness and romantic interest
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Direct Approach
While interpreting signs can be helpful, directly communicating with your crush can provide clarity. Asking them directly or initiating a conversation about your feelings can either bring you closer or help you move on [3:2]. This approach eliminates assumptions and provides a definitive answer.
Ultimately, understanding whether your crush likes you involves observing their behavior, interactions, and communication patterns. While these signs can offer hints, direct communication remains the most effective method to gain certainty.
Tell me some signs.
Turn their body towards you.
They smile and make eye contact a lot.
They ask personal questions or seem really interested in you.
They make time for you even if they’re busy.
They get lowkey jealous when you mention others.
It really depends on how well connected you are with the person.
They may talk to you specifically or single you out more often, they may do things that they don’t for others.
There are so many signs that it’s impossible to list them all.
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Signs vary from person to person. Some guys like to playfully tease their crush. Others like to playfully tease everyone but their crush. It’s hard to give specific signs. Maybe if you provide more details about your interactions, we might be able to help.
So you’re really into a guy, but you doubt if he feels the same way. You might be too shy to ask him out so you're wondering if he likes you or not. And now he occupies your head and it has affected your daily routine. Here are 12 Signs on How to tell if a Guy Likes You.
Video version https://youtu.be/QGHk5XJjKPs.
1. He’s funny when he’s with you
Humor is the key guys use to open the doors of opportunity to keep your attention with him. Whether it's a trending funny video, or about his long curly hair, or his funny pet at home, or even try mimicking a funny accent. If he know it makes you laugh, he'll bring the plate on the table.
2. Observe his body language
Body language has been proven scientifically to communicate attraction. Check out these basic three gestures when you're together.
Does he lean in towards you when he talks? Are his feet pointing towards you? Does he mirror your gestures?
3. He welcomes you in his circle
A guy who is not interested with you won't waste time asking you to hang out with his close friends. If his friends already know you and talks to you as if you're already familiar with them, guess what? He might be talking a lot about you.
4. Keep an eye on his friends
If he likes you his friends will talk or joke a lot about you. Or even about you two being together.
5. His eyes is glued on you
It’s an age old proven signal that if a guy likes you, he will maintain and lock eye contact with you when you are talking. His eyes brows will be raised and his pupils will be dilated.
If his pupils are on to your lips as you talk, he’s romantically into you.
6. He wants to know a lot about you
Guys don’t do so much asking but when they do, that’s a strong signal that he likes you. He won't let the time pass without getting an answer from you about your childhood, your talents and interests.
7. He’s uneasy around you
If his presence makes you put a lot of effort to be calm, reality is that he's probably nervous around you as well. Is he trying to catch his thoughts before it slips from his mind? or is he stuttering when you're talking personally? Is he taking time before he replies?
He probably isn't sure what to tell you because he's trying to impress you. He probably wants to meet your standards and it's making him nervous to carefully make a move or drop the next reply.
8. He shares yours interest
He will try to make your interests meet. He will do the effort to adopt the things you're into, like get into your hobbies, watch movies or shows that you shared with him, listen to the songs he saw from your list. So later on these spices up your conversations.
9. You're included in his calendar
As easy-go lucky guys would seem, time isn't luxury for most guys, they use it to things that matters to them. Like hang out with friends, play games, or watch sports. If you notice that he’s setting aside any of these to spend time with you, then he must be attracted to you.
10. He's an extra-gentleman for you
When a guy likes you, he will treat you differently. If a guy is into you, you can tell as he might do special things for you. Let's say, attending a school club's meeting and he reserves a seat for you, leaves you a 'good morning' message almost every day before you go to school or work, or keeps on being thoughtful most of the time and checks you often when you're not together, or volunteers to drive you home and make sure you're safe.
11. He always compliments you
Even if you feel so simple yet he still see so much in you, you're the apple of his eyes. He'll do the effort of making you feel special with warm compliments. He'll notice your hairstyle, make-up, outfit, or follow your posts on social media and will let you know how much he appreciates it by leaving reactions and sending you comments.
12. You're the reason smiles
If his eyes curve with his lips, he's genuinely happy within. You may try sending him a message while keeping him in your eyes. If he reads a message from you, without him knowing you're in the same place as him, and you notice him smiling as he opens the message, that confirms that you make him smile.
the guy i like did like most of these, but he never texts me sooo like YEET there goes that
Do you ever initiate texting?
i have! i'd say, now at this point, it's been 50/50 or around that, but they were all about school/the class we shared together, i just don't want to be clingy or weird so i can't really text him every day (i mean we don't really text super frequently, we have short convos and thats about it, the class we shared is now also over so :P) but in the beginning i started all of the convos, idk he just seems to be the type of person that only texts first if he wants to, and the past two things he's initiated a convo with is just about class and asking me stuff about it
Texting is way more awkward than talking.
but i'm never gonna see him in person, so there's no really "talking in person" anymore :( he seems pretty good at texting from the previous conversations i've had with him
hes done it a few times, but only to ask about our class (he replied to my story once, only bc i was asking for data for a project) :P ive accepted that he will probably never like me back but im okay with it, u cant force someone to feel the same :P, i have a whole post about it down on my profile if ur curious LOL
Well I can’t say I agree with everything on this list since I don’t do all of these things but most of them are true
I watch your videos:)) You helped me pretty much and I thank you for that. Keep posting!
Wow, thanks! that means a ton to me :)
lmaooo he does absolutely none of these
Relatable
There's a guy I like who does these things you listed so I thought he liked me back. I told him how I felt and he told me he didn't like me beyond a friend. It's been confusing because we didn't strike up a normal friendship and then feelings developed.
How do you know your crush likes you back without him telling you?
Just send him a message and you will know. Now don't tell me that you are shy, it doesn't matter.
The sooner you ask him, the better.
There is no point in assuming things, and talking with him will either bring you two together or you will just know the truth and move one (Win-win situation)
Compliments, excuses to be around or proximity, eye contact
He fucks you with his eyes.
usually trying to find an excuse to spend time with you one on one (eg, walking you to your bus stop after a group meet up), getting physically closer when you talk /initiating physical affection if they're not usually a physical person (more in the hug zone than fistbump here though), complimenting you (again depends on the person here) also I heard that raising eyebrows is a thing??? idk if that one is true, but the other ones were what helped me clock someone liked me hehe
Every little thing my crush does feels like a clue, but I can never tell if I’m reading too much into it or if there’s actually something there. Like… sometimes they laugh at my jokes, text back pretty quick, or find little excuses to talk to me. But other times they’re super dry and I feel like I’m just imagining the whole thing.
It’s driving me insane not knowing. Do you think crushes ever make it obvious, or is it always this confusing? How do you tell the difference between someone being friendly and someone actually liking you?
U can never know if its being friendly or crushing and yes it is this complicated welcome to the world of crushing.
I just need advice. I might update later.
best way to tell if they likes u or not is by making eye contact, I'm pretty sure everyone(boys and girls) get embarrassed when they make eye contact with their crush
they stare at you, they always laugh at your jokes, they ask you a lot of questions, they avoid eye contact, they smile a lot around you, and their friends seem to know about you.
i agree with u but the part where u said her friends know about u isn't always true cause there's some girls (or boys) that get embarrassed so they just keep it to themselves
oh yeah fair enough. only if they tell ofc
paano niyo nalaman na may gusto rin pala sa inyo yung crush niyo? kasi diba, kadalasan tahimik lang tayo or umaasa lang, pero may mga moment talaga na parang “wait, may chance ata ako.” ano yung signs o experience na nagpa-realize sa inyo na mutual pala yung feelings? share niyo naman, nakakatuwang basahin yung mga ganung kwento.
Eyes!! The he/she looks at you.
Nung kinausap ko sya bigla nang malapitan, nakita ko nagspark yung eyes nya tapos umiwas ng tingin. Napasabi nalang ako sa isip ko “Ahhh ok gets.” tapos looking back, may mga other signs pa pala ako na namiss. Pero it’s the eyes talaga.
Nagpapansin siya eh
Sem ender.
Niyaya ako at dinala sa boarding house. Kilala ko naman mga friends niya and classmates din namin ibang mga kasama niya sa BH, akala ko mag aabot abot kami doon.
Nagdala ako foods and such for the group. Sem ender nga eh.
Nakipagkwentuhan. Gabi na, wala pa mga kasama niya.
Since kami lang sa room, I didn't want to get in trouble kaya nagpaalam na ako.
Hindi ako pinayagan.
Maliligo lang daw siya tapos kakain na kami.
Pagkakain, nagpaalam na ako ulit.
Hindi ulit ako pinayagan.
Wala pa daw siya kasama kaya samahan ko pa daw siya. Baka may iba lang daw pinuntahan. Sem ender nga eh.
Kwentuhan ulit. Nung late na, at kahit wala pa rin kasama, nagpaalam na ako.
Hindi ulit ako pinayagan.
Doon na daw ako matulog. Lumuwas na daw kasama niya.
Sabi ko, wala akong dalang damit.
Sabi niya, maligo na ako, hahanapan niya ako ng damit. Mahilig naman siya sa baggy clothes kasi may pagkaboyish siya.
Ayun. Pagkaligo, nagbihis. Meron nga napahiram, blue superman shirt.
Nagkwentuhan ulit.
Nung nahiga na ako sa vacant bed dahil wala naman kasama niya, hindi ulit ako pinayagan.
Doon daw ako matulog sa tabi niya.
Nagpatay na ng ilaw.
Nung nagtabi na kami, humarap ako sa kabilang side. Felix Bakat na eh. Hindi ulit ako pinayagan.
Humarap daw ako sa kanya.
Ayun.
Her long hair on my face, scent of Palmolive na green, slender, perky and pinkish, smooth legs. Hot body, warm breath.
Boyish sa campus, boyish manamit, boyish umasta, boyish magsalita. I gave her some chocolates a few days back, who knew right?
A true morena beauty. Wala palang boyish kapag madilim na.
Umalis ako kinabukasan na. Sem ender nga eh.
Cheers.
Malalaman at mararamdaman mo naman ‘yon. Kapag madalas siyang nagme-message at ipinaparamdam sa’yo na ikaw na ang mundo niya, may hint ka na.
ok so for some background were both 14 year old boys and in 8th grade and we met on the first day of school and became friends immedietly. ive liked him from the start and i was wondering if anything that he does around me indicates that he likes me :D
some things he does is
omg i love him so much hes the best
edit: i forgot to mention that he always tells me that im a very good looking guy and that im very sweet and also he likes to hold hands with me
>he likes to hold hands with me
hunny if you dont get your husband rn I WOULD RIOT
I do that with my bestie and she has a bf
that’s different girls do that all the time guys barely or almost never do
i've never been so sure in my life of two people being into each other bro
same boat here. think maybe OP would just like to share this wonderful news with us. go get him OP!
idk man i do the same with my friends and non of us r gay
Im ganna hold your hand when i say this..
Holding hands and not gay? Yeah sure
I get it, I get no bitches
Please stop reminding me
Wattpad ahh romance story
( it means yes he likes you omg a 14 year old like me who’s going into relationship and I’m not )
I wanted to know if anyone knows any ways to check whether your crush likes you. She's a good friend of mine so I don't want to confess without at least being confident she likes me back.
Learn about body language maybe?
Have you noticed any little things that could mean her liking you I can see if they might be smthing
She's very comfortable holding hands with me while we walk and hugging me, but she might just be a touchy person. I know she's fine hugging her other female friends but I seem to be the only guy friend she's comfortable hugging and, to my knowledge, she doesn't hold hands with anyone else.
I'd say she likes you then u should shoot ur shot bro
Ask her friends that's whag i did
Honestly if i were you I would try to flirt with her but not too much to the point that it’s obvious that your flirting with her. I know this sounds pretty confusing but try to understand it.
Coming from a girls perspective. I know for me it was weird when it came to liking someone I'm super extroverted and would get tongue tied 😅 and not talk the other part of me as an adult it was always like a protection feeling like defending them if people were rude or also I think sometimes when a girl likes you they tend to crumble and can't look at you in your eyes. Hope this helps based off what I've seen in my friends and my experience. Good luck and always will give advice :)
just ask, what’s the worst that can happen
Like Sacha Baron Cohen character Borat said.. "I like you, do you like me?"
“Ew”
exactly
They tell you so.
If you're interested in them, ask. Guessing and hints suck.
This.
They sometimes put your genitals in their mouth
I asked for signs, not some proofs.
They rub their scent on your belongings.
HaHaHa. That’s hilarious !
Very good sign
A girl friend I have told me recently that she pays attention to people that can't afford eye contact, because that's a sign the person is getting intimidated.
Are you more upfront or passive about perusing your crush? What do you do to flirt or get them to notice you?
Not passive but not all over the guy I like either
Staring, leaning towards u when talking, revealing personal stuff (that no one else might know) and talking to u differently from how they treat others
Same :)
how to tell if your crush likes you
Key Considerations to Determine If Your Crush Likes You:
Body Language:
Engagement in Conversation:
Compliments and Teasing:
Initiating Contact:
Nervousness or Shyness:
Takeaway: Pay attention to these signs collectively rather than individually, as everyone expresses interest differently. If you feel comfortable, consider expressing your feelings or asking them out to gauge their response directly.
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